Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

I tend to frown on extremism- of any stripe, on either side of the spectrum, and sadly it seems like there is more and more of it these days on social media and other forums. I haven't seen it on thi ...

Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:52 am • 31 Replies • 9164 Views

Re: I'm very new and have a question.

Hello all, thank you for taking time to read this.
I joined this to honestly, find friends and talk to new people who share the same sort of mindset... I was wondering if honestly, if that's alright ...

Fri Jun 04, 2021 6:49 am • 19 Replies • 7916 Views

Judgemental people

Well one good point- yes you should use your good sense and judge according to things that either set off alarm bells or are turn-offs for you, but try at least to be respectable about it on the forum ...

Fri Jun 04, 2021 4:07 am • 55 Replies • 21139 Views

Re: Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

Do you ever worry that you’ll end up alone because your dom/sub side of you needs that other type of person to fulfill you? I’ve met so many “nice guys” but I don’t think they could ever slap me in be ...

Wed Jun 02, 2021 7:45 am • 79 Replies • 26309 Views

Judgemental people

As a submissive male into female domination, I have encountered many judgemental people, not so much on this forum (yet, so far...) but on other D/s, or BDSM/kink related forums, who look down on peop ...

Sun May 30, 2021 11:05 pm • 55 Replies • 21139 Views

Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xADSDapqn9o

Weird, creepy ballroom music....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYZk7eHYob0

....Which gets weirder and creepier the more you listen to it....

h ...

Sat May 29, 2021 3:35 am • 261 Replies • 64474 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Nobody likes being ghosted. And when it's happened to me, I always wonder, "Well, what did I do wrong?" assuming that I did, in fact, make a mistake. The not knowing aspect of it is the hardest. I w ...

Fri May 28, 2021 4:23 am • 16 Replies • 6232 Views

Golden showers

In the right scene, with the right partner, being peed on is sooooo hot! I love the degradation of it; of being a "Bathroom B**ch" for Her sake, to mark and to use in that degrading manner, allowing ...

Thu May 27, 2021 7:25 am • 53 Replies • 27819 Views

songs & lifestyle.

"Seduce and Destroy" by Otep Shamaya.

Thu May 27, 2021 3:05 am • 4 Replies • 2178 Views

What's your addiction?

Peas...covered with Wasabi!
(greatest invention.)
And Windows Chess Titans- my worst time waster.
And yeah, as far as substances that are legal and are not wasabi, I'd say, coffee, tragically.

Sat May 22, 2021 9:41 am • 228 Replies • 54842 Views