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441

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

My first relationship with a domme ended because she wanted it to evolve into a 24/7 type total power exchange right away, and I wasn't ready for that. She scared me off, in other words.

A potenti ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 6:39 am • 18 Replies • 8291 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

442

Help

What was it that attracted you to her originally? You obviously love her and are obviously physically attracted to her. But sometimes accepting people for who they are, also means accepting them for ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 2:51 am • 5 Replies • 3933 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Help

443

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I'd like to make a comment on the point that "Closeted Freak" made above, that the quickest way to scare off a woman was to appear too submissive.

While, to an extent people are hard wired, it is a ...

Wed Sep 08, 2021 5:20 am • 47 Replies • 27333 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

444

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

Most of the time, I have found that trying to pursue someone who is not interested (and explicitly tells you so) is a waste of time. Both your time and theirs. I just move on to the next person. An ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:47 am • 25 Replies • 9614 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

445

Whats your favourite toy?

A cock leash (with my dream goddess holding the other end of course) and a cat o'nine tails for Her use, for those times when I'm a bit too out of line.

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:42 am • 33 Replies • 18739 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Whats your favourite toy?

446

When is it topping from the bottom?

^aching cavern without lucidity...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 3873 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Untied

Topic

When is it topping from the bottom?

447

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

It is interesting to read that while the numbers are certainly skewed towards submissive men vs domme females, the numbers may not be as skewed as the dating sites indicate- for reasons that the domme ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 2:54 am • 47 Replies • 27333 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

448

What's your addiction?

Peas.... covered with WASABI !!!

Sat Aug 28, 2021 9:10 am • 228 Replies • 67132 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

What's your addiction?

449

Verbal Humiliation

In an intimate setting, yes!
In a public setting, in front of other people, then no.
Small penis humilation, verbal degredation, in an intimate setting (either just me with Her, or with HEr and He ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 3:01 am • 31 Replies • 19318 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Verbal Humiliation

450

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

My three favorite (That I've experienced)
Pegging,
Strap-on worship,
and Watersports
(it was hard to choose just three though...cock size humiliation, verbal humiliation, and spanking are up ther ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 2:58 am • 35 Replies • 15559 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try