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Tattoos

I like 'em but only up to a point. A few tattoos give a girl a "Bad girl" look which drives me absolutely wild. Too many though, to the point where they just cover every inch of skin, and it's kind ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 3:48 am • 30 Replies • 11014 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Tattoos

Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

I think all of us are a product of how we are raised, and the experiences that have shaped us as we grow. I think both have come into play with me, and made me heavily lean submissive when it comes t ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 2:43 am • 21 Replies • 10970 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

d/s deffinitions

It is hard, and at least, takes practice, to be a good sub. Practice, trust, and courage- and finding that person to trust so you can put yourself in both a physically and emotionally compromising po ...

Mon Mar 31, 2025 6:25 am • 5 Replies • 1439 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

d/s deffinitions

Being Naked

What Blondie said about being in your dominants control, about baring your body and soul- total surrender and trust, well, that is what I have been chasing all my life- that kind of connection.

Sun Mar 30, 2025 3:18 am • 22 Replies • 6767 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Being Naked

What's worst?

Well, you do at least give a warning, and for that reason I respect, and agree with, everything you are saying. You let them know, and if they don't get it then, it's on them.

And yes, as mentio ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 6:39 am • 21 Replies • 5350 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What's worst?

Can we normalize not using suicide/self harm as a threat?

It is manipulation, and is called being a drama queen. I have no patience for that kind of thing. If someone was really serious about taking such a drastic step, then often, they won't actually say ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 2:49 am • 10 Replies • 1849 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Can we normalize not using suicide/self harm as a threat?

What's worst?

If you are talking about specifically on this site; I think being blocked without discernible reason bothers me more. Because then, I always wonder what I did, or what I said, that upset them to the ...

Thu Mar 27, 2025 2:33 am • 21 Replies • 5350 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What's worst?

Lesson of the day

I agree with that sentiment. I would argue that my submissiveness is also a personality trait....however, when people talk about "Skills" or "Experience" they may mean a couple things. One of them i ...

Tue Mar 25, 2025 2:55 am • 3 Replies • 2492 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Lesson of the day

How did you get started.

I suppose, then, on that note I was always submissive, but there were certainly a few experiences along the way that shaped me to be this way.

I was always raised to be attentive to other people' ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:06 am • 21 Replies • 10694 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How did you get started.

A vetting guide/questionnaire

These are ALL very valid questions for people to narrow down what they are seeking, and to avoid wasting time when you get into it and realize that you are both seeking very different things from the ...

Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:43 am • 2 Replies • 3012 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

A vetting guide/questionnaire