Username! Stands For...?

I'll take a stab at it:

S for Submission.
T for TOTAL submission.
E for Empathy, because I want to understand what my partner is feeling, and satisfy their emotional needs.
E for Experience ...

Fri Feb 28, 2025 3:45 am • 18 Replies • 7069 Views

Conversation Starters

My thoughts: If you are interested in connecting with a fellow Cage member, then build up your own presence on the site, and then follow them (though not obsessively of course.) If they have a blog, ...

Tue Feb 25, 2025 3:35 am • 9 Replies • 3109 Views

One BDSM Activity

So many to choose from!
Being cock-caged and having my sexual releases exclusively and entirely under Her control... would be the ultimate, as it would lead to further obediance... and discipline. ...

Sat Feb 22, 2025 3:51 am • 26 Replies • 4613 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

Your second sentence is key: " Differentiating between love and pleasure." Very good point.

A long time ago, I had a conversation with this wonderful, beautiful, and amazing woman about this dyna ...

Fri Feb 21, 2025 4:07 am • 16 Replies • 4209 Views

Galentine's Day," "Valentine's Day," "Kink V-Day," or "None.

It's for the "Gal'"S for me, a day on which I would languish extra love and affection for my female companion. So... the first one.

(Although the reality is, as of right now, it's simply "Bust." )

Sat Feb 15, 2025 1:46 am • 2 Replies • 583 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

As mentioned, it is basically a man who satisfies other people's wifes/girlfriends in ways their normal romantic/life partner cannot. Either because they are a better lover, or (more often) have larg ...

Wed Feb 05, 2025 3:44 am • 16 Replies • 4209 Views

age gaps

I am far younger than Bill Belichik, and (quite honestly) far less successful. (Because let's face it, I suspect most of us average dudes haven't coached an NFL team to six super bowl wins.) With th ...

Tue Jan 28, 2025 3:57 am • 25 Replies • 10944 Views

Looking Back

I suppose there are. Definitely, early on; those intense sub-frenzied feelings were a bit overwhelming the first time I experienced them and I went into it really not knowing a whole lot, and blunder ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 3:45 am • 14 Replies • 2341 Views

Is there anyone that is not confused?

As a male sub I could give similarly bleak numbers on femdommes, it's a bit different dymanic though and it depends on where and how you look at it. As far as "Where"- Over the broader internet beyond ...

Mon Jan 20, 2025 11:26 pm • 18 Replies • 5251 Views

Is there anyone that is not confused?

I have accepted that I am submissive, and ready to roll over and kneel before the one who will accept me as such. That is a powerful and somehow comforting feeling. I could never "Switch" or be dom ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 9:25 am • 18 Replies • 5251 Views