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Kinks: Into everything?

Everyone has limits. Problem is, some of them they just don't know it. With inexperienced people new to the lifestyle, they might not yet realize what those limits are. And it's up to them to disco ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:44 am • 14 Replies • 3034 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Kinks: Into everything?

How did you get started.

What originally "Turned me on" to BDSM? It was watching a documentary about a dungeon in New York, staffed by professionals. Something about the way these super strong, confident, powerful (and HOT) ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:41 am • 21 Replies • 9512 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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How did you get started.

That is a really amazing story and I am glad you were able to find what you were looking for, and quickly realized exactly what you DIDNT want and were able to get out of a really terrible situation. ...

Sun Mar 02, 2025 11:20 pm • 21 Replies • 9512 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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How did you get started.

Username! Stands For...?

I'll take a stab at it:

S for Submission.
T for TOTAL submission.
E for Empathy, because I want to understand what my partner is feeling, and satisfy their emotional needs.
E for Experience ...

Fri Feb 28, 2025 3:45 am • 18 Replies • 7290 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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Username! Stands For...?

Conversation Starters

My thoughts: If you are interested in connecting with a fellow Cage member, then build up your own presence on the site, and then follow them (though not obsessively of course.) If they have a blog, ...

Tue Feb 25, 2025 3:35 am • 9 Replies • 3302 Views

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Steellover

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Lesbian BDSM

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Conversation Starters

One BDSM Activity

So many to choose from!
Being cock-caged and having my sexual releases exclusively and entirely under Her control... would be the ultimate, as it would lead to further obediance... and discipline. ...

Sat Feb 22, 2025 3:51 am • 26 Replies • 4873 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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One BDSM Activity

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

Your second sentence is key: " Differentiating between love and pleasure." Very good point.

A long time ago, I had a conversation with this wonderful, beautiful, and amazing woman about this dyna ...

Fri Feb 21, 2025 4:07 am • 16 Replies • 4685 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

Galentine's Day," "Valentine's Day," "Kink V-Day," or "None.

It's for the "Gal'"S for me, a day on which I would languish extra love and affection for my female companion. So... the first one.

(Although the reality is, as of right now, it's simply "Bust." )

Sat Feb 15, 2025 1:46 am • 2 Replies • 662 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

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Galentine's Day," "Valentine's Day," "Kink V-Day," or "None.

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

As mentioned, it is basically a man who satisfies other people's wifes/girlfriends in ways their normal romantic/life partner cannot. Either because they are a better lover, or (more often) have larg ...

Wed Feb 05, 2025 3:44 am • 16 Replies • 4685 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

age gaps

I am far younger than Bill Belichik, and (quite honestly) far less successful. (Because let's face it, I suspect most of us average dudes haven't coached an NFL team to six super bowl wins.) With th ...

Tue Jan 28, 2025 3:57 am • 25 Replies • 11392 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

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age gaps