Just 4 Fun: Kinky Halloween Party

We're having a kinky Halloween party and you're all invited!
Please let us know in the comments what kinky tool/implement/toy you will be bringing to the event.

Plot twist: What you're bringing ...

Mon Oct 25, 2021 3:08 pm • 7 Replies • 2617 Views

Any words gross you out?

Oh, interesting topic.

English isn't my first language.
And the only word I can safely say I dislike greatly in a sexual setting is 'worthless'. I get its humiliation play, but that stops everyth ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 9:34 pm • 46 Replies • 12095 Views

Sex and Playing

Thanks for everyone's responses.

Some assumptions diverted things to interesting places. All good and helping me understand things from different view points.

Firstly, the medical issues aren't ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 10:55 pm • 12 Replies • 5905 Views

Sex and Playing

... Where playing is being face to face and engaging in any D/s and S/m behavour with the purpose of sexual arousal and/ confirmation of our respective roles.

... Where sex is seen as an act of pen ...

Mon Oct 11, 2021 6:35 am • 12 Replies • 5905 Views

He doesn't want me to say "Sir"

I've experienced this. And as I needed something I asked whether I may call Him 'my X'.
That became my name for Him. He cherished it, I did too.

You have a few choices here:
Submit grudgingly. ...

Mon Oct 11, 2021 5:58 am • 24 Replies • 8668 Views

Being sexy?

I find confidence (not to be confused with arrogance) in people very sexy.

I feel sexy when I'm wearing my pretty underwear, feel confidence in my body and in the context I find myself.

Your mil ...

Sat Sep 25, 2021 9:12 pm • 15 Replies • 5705 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I have been misty for most of my online life. It is a nod to my love for misty weather. But became more apt as I embraced my submission, feeling less and less visible to my vanilla friends and family. ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 12:37 am • 267 Replies • 116802 Views

Bruising

I've got a really light skin and as such turn a delightful (I'm told) red, but my ass and legs just don't bruise easily.

A thorough caning did that once, but it didn't last long enough at all!

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Wed Sep 22, 2021 5:58 pm • 14 Replies • 4848 Views

How do you?

I don't mean this to be a full answer. It is just one aspect of what helped me.

First, I need to know that He knows and understand whatever is niggling my mind and preventing me from submitting. E ...

Wed Sep 22, 2021 1:06 am • 4 Replies • 2592 Views

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

A hard limit for myself on this matter is that, if someone can't respect my 'no' when I am outside of a scene, there is no way in hell I'd trust them to respect my word inside a scene or when we're I ...

Sun Sep 05, 2021 8:50 am • 25 Replies • 7167 Views