Making the first move

Last week I went to a play munch with my play partner (who is very much Poly) and while there we got talking to a gorgeous young woman who identified as a switch, conversations were about life the uni ...

Wed May 24, 2023 10:02 pm • 26 Replies • 4523 Views

Bondage

Someone on the cage once told me (and its good advice) to buy a small book on human anatomy, you don't need to be an expert in it but knowing where sensitive ligaments are, such as the wrist, ankle an ...

Sun Mar 12, 2023 12:45 pm • 8 Replies • 1994 Views

Forum Fightclub

I think its an Internet thing, had an ex tell me once "it's the Internet, everyone's offended"

I think people need to air their opinions, but at the same time forum chats could be considered like t ...

Sun Sep 25, 2022 4:37 pm • 134 Replies • 14445 Views

Where to go from here

Well .... first of, I'm sorry that's happened to you.

Secondly, and this is advice for any relationship kink or otherwise, if you feel badly hurt and angry and resentful then psychologically speaki ...

Tue Sep 06, 2022 12:49 pm • 6 Replies • 1372 Views

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

Ropes, whips, handcuffs, nipple clamps ... the list of toys goes on.

I'm never really sure there's a huge amount of difference between vanilla and kink with the exception that kink uses more toys. ...

Tue Aug 30, 2022 8:31 pm • 13 Replies • 2669 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

@I'mME,

I'm sorry to hear your experiences in trying to talk to Doms has been so poor, I assure you that we do (and indeed should) answer questions asked of us.

Don't let them get you down.

M ...

Tue Aug 23, 2022 5:16 pm • 119 Replies • 28069 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

When people message me expecting something sexual out of it,

People messaging me asking me for help or my point of view on things kink related is fine, more than happy to answer.

But a few times ...

Thu Aug 18, 2022 10:04 pm • 119 Replies • 28069 Views

Re-evaluation

Short answer, Yes

Being submissive or dominant is about meeting ones emotional and physical needs, it is like any other vanilla relationship ... we just throw whips and chains in.

A relationship ...

Wed Aug 10, 2022 3:13 pm • 3 Replies • 948 Views

Day Collars

Well the great thing about the internet is that you can order from pretty much anywhere, including etsy etc.

here are a couple of sites that do custom collars

https://www.collarfactory.com/

h ...

Mon Jul 25, 2022 9:59 pm • 2 Replies • 1144 Views

Boldily Physique

Do what you want to do and if people complain about it let them, its why headphones were invented - Moonlighter 2022

But seriously if you want to workout 6 days a week or 2 days a week, if you want ...

Mon Mar 14, 2022 1:12 am • 41 Replies • 9287 Views