Cuckold and forced bi

I know this is going to sound judgmental on a site where judging is the only real taboo. Being a cuckold is where the line is crossed from submissive to low self esteem. To each his own, but it's no ...

Wed Jan 12, 2022 5:20 pm • 44 Replies • 28250 Views

Where is good erotica?

The interwebs seem to be full of (bad) fiction about BDSM. What I have trouble finding are real stories, that I actually believe to be real. What I seek are stories about how a couple started down t ...

Sat Jan 01, 2022 6:10 pm • 22 Replies • 7304 Views

New domme

Badbloodthirty,

Don't think of this as something your partner is asking you to do for him. See it as a gift he is trying to give you. If you do it right this really could be a great start of some ...

Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:46 pm • 6 Replies • 2735 Views

New domme

It may sound cliche but communication is the key. If he's anything like me the more aroused he is the more the truth will come out. Tell him you will consider this new direction in your relationship ...

Wed Oct 13, 2021 5:53 am • 6 Replies • 2735 Views

Punishments

Have your sub put a small hook in the ceiling directly above the pillow. Find a way to clip whatever whip or cane that you use, with the ability to adjust how far it reaches to the bed. When your s ...

Sat Sep 25, 2021 4:00 pm • 16 Replies • 7181 Views

Punishments

A random thought about punishments. I have always been most moved by the mental aspect of D/S.

If the Domme places the sub on his knees, face to the floor naked, in position to get swats, this n ...

Sun Sep 19, 2021 12:10 am • 16 Replies • 7181 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

For the sake of simplicity, and length of post, I'm going to stick with the hetro relationships.

From a purely subjective standpoint it is clear Dominant Females is a smaller group than sub fe ...

Mon Sep 06, 2021 4:39 pm • 47 Replies • 17975 Views

Question for Female Dommes and chime in anyone please

I suspect his intent, however misguided, was to send the message of the type of Domme he seeks. Some are fun and playful and others are no nonsense and rougher.

The partner he seeks may wear this ...

Tue Aug 17, 2021 8:56 pm • 30 Replies • 11125 Views

Discussing Dominant Women personals

Public apologies to Sasa. My response was joining in the conversation, not intended to be a retaliation to her post.

Mon Aug 16, 2021 11:01 pm • 22 Replies • 7306 Views

Discussing Dominant Women personals

Men often think a Domme is supposed to cart wheel in the room and put on a show like in the porn they've seen. Dominant females think ignoring the man's desires is synonymous to being dominant. ...

Mon Aug 16, 2021 4:44 pm • 22 Replies • 7306 Views