Musing turned Inquiry: Demanding Relocation

It's part of the overall structure honestly. If a submissive relies on their Dom/me for structure and wants to relinquish control and worry to them, as many do, does it make sense for the submissive t ...

Fri May 10, 2024 6:48 am • 20 Replies • 5626 Views

Do you block or have you been blocked?

Amusing story, I stumbled on a profile of somebody relatively local. I never had any interaction with this person before, but it turned out I was already blocked. I read the profile and there was a l ...

Wed Apr 03, 2024 11:19 am • 62 Replies • 12660 Views

Submissive verses Slave

I have questions on this topic ?
I know answers will vary, but im interested in the general consensus. I hope this is okay Twinkle!

Would being 'owned' equate to being a slave? Or is a submissive ...

Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:32 am • 53 Replies • 12775 Views

Submissive verses Slave

I've had a number of experiences to mention and how it's shaped my view on the matter.

I think of it like a spectrum where on one end is a functionally vanilla relationship with kinky sex and on t ...

Thu Mar 07, 2024 12:34 pm • 53 Replies • 12775 Views

Hypnosis

The thing is, you can't 'break' someone in that way. But it can be used as a tool of manipulation by those who are seeking shortcuts. I liken it to people who are desperate for weight loss solutions a ...

Tue Mar 05, 2024 1:08 am • 62 Replies • 20260 Views

Hypnosis

In the midst of the magic shows and Hollywood fluffing, hypno has seen some uses and produced results in behavioral studies. That and with enough people that swear by it, here must be some legitimacy ...

Mon Mar 04, 2024 12:29 pm • 62 Replies • 20260 Views

Political differences

It's nice to think of politics as some set of philosophical differences or as harmless theories/thought experiments that can be set aside in favor of common interests/goals, but the reality is that po ...

Thu Feb 15, 2024 3:52 am • 24 Replies • 4385 Views

Re: Long distance, when it is time to meet

Hey Lil ? Being that I do poke around here and field responses from folks, it is something that I've struggled with, so I appreciate your response


We first met on reddit and once we got to the po ...

Sun Jan 28, 2024 4:01 pm • 8 Replies • 2137 Views

Long distance, when it is time to meet

Say you have met somebody on the cage, online, wherever, and the two of you are ready to move past the vetting stage and start looking at meeting. How do you want it to happen? That is to say, what co ...

Sat Jan 27, 2024 6:51 pm • 8 Replies • 2137 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

Eh. What constitutes copy paste? A word for word generic prompt ctrl+C/ctrl+V to every person? Some sites do offer features like that such as mass email 'icebreakers' to promote your profile. What abo ...

Tue Dec 26, 2023 3:28 am • 63 Replies • 12604 Views