Asking advise

Let me guess, your LG wanted an ambitious man and now she's beginning to question that decision as a result of you working all the time because of your personal ambition. So one of you two came up wit ...

Thu Dec 09, 2021 6:50 am • 19 Replies • 4725 Views

What is BDSM/kink to you?

Finding art by having an experience of art? Is this what you mean? Discovering art, or kink, on a deep level through an emotional, physical or mental response that arouses the desire to have more... ...

Sun Dec 05, 2021 7:43 am • 11 Replies • 3723 Views

What is BDSM/kink to you?

Kink, like art, is where you find it. For the longest time, I couldn't walk through a Home Depot without getting an erection.

Made pointing the way to other shoppers a fun time.

"Right down ...

Sat Dec 04, 2021 8:22 pm • 11 Replies • 3723 Views

Are slaves also subs?

I long ago ceased worrying about being the "less than" outcast among the "twue subs" and "twue dominates". I have actually had that thrown in my face by both dominants AND submissives

Good f ...

Thu Dec 02, 2021 6:35 pm • 53 Replies • 13560 Views

Are slaves also subs?

All squares are rectangles. Not all rectangles are squares.

All slaves are subs. Not all subs are slaves.

I dont see the sub/slave dynamic as being that different because even in a vanilla rel ...

Thu Dec 02, 2021 6:28 pm • 53 Replies • 13560 Views

Re: Fixing cage

This site would be better if you didnt have to pay a subscribtion to message

Then you'd just get spammers.

Tue Nov 16, 2021 4:31 pm • 14 Replies • 3417 Views

Dom vetting - why or why not?

Vetting only sounds like a good idea on paper.

In practice, its utterly stupid. Think about it, you are outsourcing the most vital trust-building communications with someone you dont know online t ...

Sun Nov 14, 2021 9:59 pm • 46 Replies • 10934 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

I knew I had sadistic tendencies by middle school. Torture and torture devices always fascinated me. I daydreamed about mechanical traps and torture pits, and as my sexuality bloomed, my daydreaming v ...

Sat Nov 13, 2021 5:54 pm • 95 Replies • 30170 Views

Cooked The Rice - What’s the Punishment?

Now I'm going through designs in my head to build a kneeling box. Place it on the floor, fill the bottom with the item to be knelt on, have the submissive kneel in it, have one strap just above the ca ...

Fri Nov 12, 2021 4:54 pm • 73 Replies • 15497 Views

a really great spanking...

A hand made paddle with heart shaped holes drilled in it, OTK, nearly nude submissive and a little muscle cream to apply afterwards for extra sting.

Fri Nov 12, 2021 4:29 pm • 4 Replies • 2591 Views