Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

Good question and one I’m exploring writhing myself currently. I’ve been told by several people that I have submissive tendencies. I do not believe I’m a natural submissive. However there are people f ...

Tue May 06, 2025 2:35 am • 21 Replies • 9594 Views

How to break the chain ?

Nothing that I can say that you haven’t already said, or has been said to you by others. Just lending my support as you make this transition in your life.

Sun Feb 23, 2025 1:30 am • 17 Replies • 2900 Views

Tattoos

I really want a tattoo, and have some planned out in my head. I just really don’t like needles so doing it will definitely take me outside of my comfort zone.

Wed Feb 19, 2025 3:47 am • 30 Replies • 9247 Views

Loneliness

It can be lonely no matter what your role in the lifestyle. Reaching out to other subs has helped me, and I’ve made two very good friends who understand me in a way that my vanilla friends couldn’t. W ...

Thu Feb 13, 2025 2:45 am • 13 Replies • 3339 Views

Physical attraction

The thought of physical attraction can be intimidating because we are taught to be shallow about it. Physical attraction is such a personal experience -what is attractive to one person is not necessar ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:24 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views

Physical attraction

Plain and simple, I am a highly visual male. I have worked on making sure that I'm not "shallow" about it, and I am absolutely aware that beauty is only skin deep. (I'm also very aware that I'm not Ge ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:18 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views

Physical attraction

Physical attraction is literally NEVER the first thing that draws me to someone.

I'm demisexual, sapiosexual, and deeply submissive.

Aesthetic attraction just doesn't rank as highly for me as ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:12 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views

Physical attraction

Thanks for putting this conversation out there PandaGirl!

I feel that how you look is part of your identity, and the narrative that looks don't matter is ridiculous. To want to see a picture is a n ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:09 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views

Physical attraction

Physical attraction is a requirement for me for continued chatting. Been through too many women that wanna chat without showing their face and form. Idc of that means I'm shallow, it's me.

Good poi ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:05 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views

Re: Physical attraction

Panda But you have a beautiful art form with aura and a sensual side soul essence says a lot the old soul is beauty. I have read your face but never seen it but 4 clairs you are a beauty I have i ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 3:00 am • 24 Replies • 4201 Views