WIFE

Do you want a Femdom? What do you want out of this? Are you looking for more, an actual bdsm relationship? Is it more about the dynamic than anything else?
What exactly are afraid of? that she's goi ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 4:05 am • 18 Replies • 4859 Views

WIFE

Thank you very much for your reply, it's appreciated.
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I am not uncomfortable with what's going on, just afraid of what it may morph into

Your welcome for the reply. Thanks for understand ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 2:18 am • 18 Replies • 4859 Views

WIFE

My answer is pretty straight forward. People might call it blunt.
You say your afraid of her and earlier said you don't discuss, let alone negotiate or give consent to make it actually Femdom or BDSM ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 1:30 am • 18 Replies • 4859 Views

Dom was present, now ignoring me

Some times people ('cuse the language) get scared when shit gets real.

Maybe he needs time to think, things through....or maybe what was said is to real for him. That doesn't mean you need to be ...

Sun Jul 10, 2022 4:20 am • 30 Replies • 6574 Views

Could you give it up?

I tried decades ago to forgo Femdom on and off. True Fetishism (in the book definition) doesn't just go away. "sex" doesn't happen without the fetish being fed. I have Fetishes not just kinks or pref ...

Thu Jun 30, 2022 6:25 am • 27 Replies • 5264 Views

Homemade Flogging devices

My favorite homemade flogger is from rope. You can use various sizes of rope or increase the number of tentacles to get the extra thud.

I especially love it when my back or shoulder is hurting. Th ...

Fri Jun 17, 2022 4:31 am • 14 Replies • 4553 Views

Some real help needed

I think what Miss Bonnie was suggesting is that you TAKE CONTROL. Stop asking. Stop suggesting. Just tell her. Take the reins and take control. This is what D/s is. ...snip

Hmm NO! that is not what ...

Mon May 16, 2022 3:01 am • 21 Replies • 4821 Views

Some real help needed

A lot of people mistake "submissive" with doing nothing. This is absolutely not the case. You should inform her that this is a two-way street where she has responsibilities to uphold her side of the e ...

Sun May 15, 2022 3:53 am • 21 Replies • 4821 Views

Dangers to Ice Cube play/Recomendations?

To lessen skin contact with ice to stop that sticking that sineater mentioned use a condom over the ice...or better still make the ice cube in the condom so there are no sharp edges. If your after a l ...

Mon May 09, 2022 1:58 am • 4 Replies • 1037 Views

What is your opinion on sex toys for men?

You might be looking at this from a MALE DOM perspective as you use ON Female submissives. FEMALE DOMMES do the same on male submissives. Why should there be a gender separation or divide to sex toys. ...

Fri Apr 29, 2022 3:29 am • 16 Replies • 3813 Views