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I agree with all above. I'll just throw out one for thing for consideration.
A lot Dommes are just that Dommes, they do not "switch" They list themselves as "Femdom" Femdom implies that men ONLY hav ...

Mon Sep 13, 2021 1:00 am • 8 Replies • 3165 Views

Less Experienced Dom and More Experienced Sub

IMO anything thing can work if you BOTH want it to and BOTH are willing to put int he efforts needed
but saying the above, if you already know and understand what you need and want, why even try? If ...

Sat Sep 11, 2021 5:34 am • 13 Replies • 6232 Views

Age does not equal maturity

I get the reverse and get 20 somethings hitting on me (but most older Dommes do due to our lack of numbers) it makes me uncomfortable too (I have children that age) I just tend to politely decline, no ...

Fri Sep 10, 2021 9:20 am • 16 Replies • 3313 Views

Questioned role

I'm often told I'm "to nice to be a Domme" quite often actually! Most of the time because I say please and thankyou and have some general manners. I also often get the same as you mention online (not ...

Mon Sep 06, 2021 2:33 am • 13 Replies • 4593 Views

Vetting.

IMO and "adding" to good ideas above, Vetting doesn't keep people safe, it makes things a little safe'r'
We all need to keep that in our heads!
Safer is better, than nothing at all.
Nothing is d ...

Thu Sep 02, 2021 3:29 am • 7 Replies • 2560 Views

Couples bdsm sessions

"And I also think he just wants someone else to dom him but with me there."

if your in an area where play has opened up, OPEN play parties might also work for you both (I implied that but didnt ac ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 1:02 am • 7 Replies • 2306 Views

Couples bdsm sessions

one of my thoughts didn't make it to my posts, I blame coffee shortsge.
Dont forget Cage also has the beginnings of a great resource section with some wonderfully written Femdom articles.

https: ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 2:03 am • 7 Replies • 2306 Views

Couples bdsm sessions

You best bet for functions, training, conventions etc is Fetlife.
You might also benefit from finding a local munch.

Both will help you not only with knowledge but with a good "real time" suppor ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 2:00 am • 7 Replies • 2306 Views

Gynarchy

Matriarchy or patriarchy. A gender shouldn't rule just because of there gender (clutches her Femdom registration card LOL)
there are people of BOTH genders you wouldn't trust to feed your goldfish, ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 4:16 am • 5 Replies • 2595 Views

On a dungeon search.

Another idea is try a local ProDomme and ask if they rent play space.

Fri Aug 27, 2021 9:02 am • 4 Replies • 2240 Views