I'm also rather fond of this ladies list. She has some great starting sites and materials for those just starting out. From many different sources from science based, educational to personal..and to t ...

My views are very much like above by Oneirnaut, yes many wear things like collars or cuffs, leather harness as Dominants as a part of the "look" (very popular in Gaydom) but I'd put that more down to ...

Not really my thing but "to each their own" ..but I hate seeing posts not replied to, I'm hoping others also post to help you with more experience "role playing"

Start with what you think you'll ne ...

what about made to order leather Arm binders as not all subs are created equal in the measurements stakes. They would create less left over materials or scraps (thinking of ways to increase your retur ...

Are we unicorns, nope we are about. Most of us are normal every day women and more often than not don't dress in pleather cat suit and bark orders (well not all the time anyway LOL) A lot of women jus ...

Domestic Discipline with the "truest"(undiluted) f meaning within the Femdom world (or the head of household), is where there is NO BDSM activities for "fun or pleasure" and only discipline is used fo ...

2. Gaining the trust of a horse

picked because my primary is stubborn as a mule and mules are horses sorta (I coulda said Ass lol)
Joking aside it seemed the best fitting of what you offered. ...

You've gotten some really good SOLID advise above. I really do hope it all works for you. Nothing I love more than a happily ever after ending.

Now matter how I phrase this its going to seem cold ...

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