BDSM career?

I've had several jobs and a career (now stepped away from) that all revolved around the "sex/BDSM/relationship" arena. Would I do it again? Does the clock rewind on age too! For now no, I'm happy in m ...

Wed Nov 04, 2020 3:09 am • 5 Replies • 3409 Views

Re: Help! Preparing for punishment....

Usually when Master arrives I open the door for Him and this is where I am worried. Instead I wanted to leave a note saying something like Master please let yourself in. .

Hmm now see I'm a little ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 12:24 am • 27 Replies • 11476 Views

COVID and Kink

Melbourne Australia and also not looking at the moment due to the virus (we just left 110 days of lockdown), Shineshinegirl nailed it for me too! I am however older and somewhat in that risk category.

Sat Oct 31, 2020 12:11 am • 10 Replies • 7128 Views

First time using a short BDSM whip

pillows and cushions are great. A towel over them even better! pick a towel with a nape...this is how fluffy it is, if you run your hand over it you can see where it was. If you have velvet even bette ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 2:47 am • 16 Replies • 8200 Views

First Time

Crazy thing though, this all happened 14 years ago, and he's still here!!! 😱🤦🤣

so many jokes....So your partner still has the box your virginity came in ...Ducks the flying coffee cups!
joking as ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 4:05 am • 9 Replies • 2540 Views

Ideas for Sex Night

if you have a cell phone there are several apps that can make for a fun spontaneous night. They randomly generate BDSM activities for each person (Dom/me &sub), that you get to prechoose before yo ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 4:01 am • 2 Replies • 1552 Views

New to bdsm

A really good friend of mine has a saying "How do you eat an Elephant"
kink is like trying to eat the per-verbal Elephant!
You need to go one bite at time. Rush you choke or miss parts that taste ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 3:46 am • 3 Replies • 1307 Views

Re: Lonely lifestyle.

I keep wondering why do we seek something that is so hard to have.

We keep seeking cause we all know when we find it, it was sooooooooo very worth the effort and pays us back tenfold. For myself p ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 3:19 am • 3 Replies • 2049 Views

Solitary BDSM ideas

there are good ideas here if your into bondage/restraint or rope play and it wont have that cost your trying to avoid.

https://www.selfbound.net/sbtechniques.html

I've used a lot of them with ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 1:45 am • 7 Replies • 6210 Views

Dream Dynamic - - - All welcome

Bumping.

I like to hear others hopes and dreams too. Nothing makes me smile than a happy ending too!

I've been lucky enough to find my dream partner of 23 years. Regarding BDSM I think I've me ...

Thu Oct 15, 2020 1:29 am • 9 Replies • 2997 Views