Where do I belong

Very important.. Before plunging into actively living this stuff, be sure it's what you want. Don't be afraid to tell someone early on if it's a bit more than you bargained for. That of course mea ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 4:16 am • 7 Replies • 3444 Views

Rigger Books and Rope Advice

See if you can find some senyojo-jutsu practitioners you can pump for information in an area convenient for you. Proper Japanese SJ, which can go by other names, is a complicated process but one I ve ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 4:11 am • 50 Replies • 20499 Views

Re: Conflictions...

Now, I am an open-minded Dominant (I'd like to think so, anyway), so through the last few years, I'd say I've picked up many things since my first Contract. There were great times, down times, happy a ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 4:03 am • 11 Replies • 6238 Views

How to punish a masochist?

By definition anyway a masochist is someone who enjoys pain and humiliation and whatnot so for us, me anyway, "punishment" is a play word. It is something to be enjoyed. The punishment noted above, ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 3:55 am • 13 Replies • 33385 Views

Please stop ghosting.

I think he meant "say something before leaving" which, while such would negate the whole "ghosting" act, it's considerate and polite.

being a non english myself I did wonder what he meant of co ...

Thu Dec 06, 2018 11:55 pm • 39 Replies • 17084 Views

Please stop ghosting.

@ CK45​(sub female)-- Thanks.. I did overlook the "freeze and run" aspect. In those shoes I would back off a bit because ghosting is not something I want to knowingly inflict on someone.

The ol' ...

Thu Dec 06, 2018 5:49 pm • 39 Replies • 17084 Views

Please stop ghosting.

I think he meant "say something before leaving" which, while such would negate the whole "ghosting" act, it's considerate and polite.

Thu Dec 06, 2018 2:59 am • 39 Replies • 17084 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Welcome YouCanNameMe and Threadbare! If you are interested please do put up a personal ad. Otherwise it's great to get to know people by chatting here in the forums and in live chat..which is open t ...

Thu Dec 06, 2018 2:47 am • 3122 Replies • 957694 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

@Soulmate Ha! I had to first say "welcome" of course but while I am not on this thread often I had to speak up It's exactly how I found this place, too.. on a Google search but not looking for ki ...

Tue Dec 04, 2018 4:13 am • 3122 Replies • 957694 Views

Would you stay or would you go

It's just about "all covered" but I got a couple cents to toss in the kettle...

I have to speak strictly hypothetical because where I am at I don't do committed relationships. But after all tha ...

Mon Dec 03, 2018 4:46 am • 46 Replies • 15390 Views