Collars

Sabine has a lovely steel collar which is secured with an alan key which she has on most of the time (due to her job it has to be taken off when working) she also has matching cuffs and anklets. Have ...

Wed Jul 19, 2023 12:00 pm • 9 Replies • 1698 Views

Where to find toys?

Its very interesting if you have a look round hardware/pet stores what can be utilised for some fun at a fraction of the price.

Tue Jul 11, 2023 1:32 pm • 16 Replies • 2303 Views

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

We have been married over 30 years and in a loving M/s lifestyle. Yes life, work, family does get in the way but if you are committed you can work round it all.

We have had a lot of fun over the ye ...

Sat Feb 25, 2023 10:46 am • 17 Replies • 3114 Views

Looking for community

Warning a bit of a rant....

Hi all, you know this topics still bug me, let me explain. I am a straight 50 (yes old b^gger ) Master loving the lifestyle and many years ago when sub and I got into t ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 10:38 am • 13 Replies • 4169 Views

Suggestions on how to dive deeper

Hi Svettttty

Would it be possible you are trying to dive in to deep to quickly? I know sounds daft but it takes a lot of trust to feel comfortable to start relinquishing control over things you hav ...

Wed Jul 20, 2022 10:56 am • 6 Replies • 1378 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello all,

Jon here thought I had better come and say hello, 50 married to my sub Sabine for 32 years living the lifestyle for about 30 years. many ups and downs along the way but still finding out ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 10:49 am • 3159 Replies • 997416 Views

Ownership

Ownership,
Sabine has given her soul, mind and body over to me to love, care for and use. It is a position of respect and trust that has got to this point in our relationship and yes she will do any ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 10:35 am • 10 Replies • 3430 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

Hi primerose, My answer would be (like others have said) very slowly with lots of communication between the pair of you. When we first started out many years ago there was a small amount of informatio ...

Mon Jul 11, 2022 6:29 pm • 58 Replies • 11899 Views