50 SHADES OF GREY, WHATS YOUR OPINION?

The movies were boring....I kept fast forwarding to get to the interesting parts and then ended up at the credits. It was like the Notebook in comparison to some of its BDSM predecessors.

Wed Jun 07, 2023 12:47 am • 24 Replies • 3299 Views

Vetting….

I’m a newbie and found that by vetting I have scared someone that I genuinely liked off. 🤷🏼‍♀️
His loss.
At first I was upset and felt like I had done something wrong, but was gently reminded that ...

Fri Jun 02, 2023 5:56 am • 19 Replies • 3233 Views

Time wasters?

I can understand the points of both sides (let's be honest and just admit that it splits down the gender lines).

I'll give insight from a serious person (who is not a flake, as most times a flakey ...

Wed May 24, 2023 1:00 am • 65 Replies • 8963 Views

Unpopular opinion to share

People are too soft. The BDSM erotica I came across growing up makes 50 shades look like Sesame Street. Most of it portaryed BDSM relationships as abusive, sharing, rape, drug use and extremes. The Do ...

Sun Sep 18, 2022 4:41 am • 13 Replies • 2674 Views

Boldily Physique

Anyone who discourages you from pursuing your best self (and possibly adding years to your life) for some sexual thrill is not right in the head. It's no different than an anorexia fetish. I'll bash t ...

Wed Sep 14, 2022 10:46 am • 41 Replies • 9272 Views

Call or not

If a "Dom" were to disappear without prior communication for x number of days I wouldn't be counting them. Focus on yourself and start putting yourself out there and talking to other people. If you wa ...

Mon Sep 12, 2022 4:00 am • 26 Replies • 5611 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

- I have a word I require in the subject line. Any message without it gets ignored.

- People who are impatient. If I didn't specially say "I am giving myself to you" you don't own my time and I don ...

Sun Sep 11, 2022 10:16 pm • 119 Replies • 28018 Views

Dom vetting - why or why not?

Unless they are your close, in-person friends (who don't desire you sexually) my opinion based on all those who have solicited me for this is that these "experienced Doms" who offer to vet are doing ...

Sun Sep 11, 2022 12:58 pm • 46 Replies • 10935 Views