How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

It's really hard to get around the ones who have perfected their craft so it's a lot of frogs. I've been involved in this community for about 16 years now and the best advice I have is to 1.) make it ...

Sun Aug 31, 2025 1:11 am • 41 Replies • 13307 Views

Dominant women on the rise?

Most of the single subs are forced to adopt a masculine role so we're are out there living our lives having to present in a certain way that probably comes off as dominant. Honestly, I see more vanill ...

Tue Mar 11, 2025 12:08 pm • 17 Replies • 3920 Views

Would your shave for your D - Your Head that is....

I would with the caveat that it wasn't a new relationship and trust had been established but it's never been something I've had to worry about as my past Partners are attracted to the traditional, fem ...

Mon Dec 23, 2024 1:15 am • 35 Replies • 6762 Views

Health, diet, and exercise… What do you do?

I don't have anything to add but I will say congratulations on your sobriety. Alcohol is, by far, the most evil substance on this planet and it makes me smile when I see a person take the steps to fig ...

Wed Dec 11, 2024 8:35 pm • 53 Replies • 6126 Views

Got ghosted again

Happens to the best of us. I have a system that I use which reduces the risk of ghosting and yet people still be lame.

Fri Nov 29, 2024 4:32 am • 11 Replies • 2401 Views

50 SHADES OF GREY, WHATS YOUR OPINION?

The movies were boring....I kept fast forwarding to get to the interesting parts and then ended up at the credits. It was like the Notebook in comparison to some of its BDSM predecessors.

Wed Jun 07, 2023 12:47 am • 24 Replies • 5470 Views

Vetting….

I’m a newbie and found that by vetting I have scared someone that I genuinely liked off. ??‍♀️
His loss.
At first I was upset and felt like I had done something wrong, but was gently reminded that ...

Fri Jun 02, 2023 5:56 am • 19 Replies • 4891 Views

Time wasters?

I can understand the points of both sides (let's be honest and just admit that it splits down the gender lines).

I'll give insight from a serious person (who is not a flake, as most times a flakey ...

Wed May 24, 2023 1:00 am • 65 Replies • 14188 Views

Unpopular opinion to share

People are too soft. The BDSM erotica I came across growing up makes 50 shades look like Sesame Street. Most of it portaryed BDSM relationships as abusive, sharing, rape, drug use and extremes. The Do ...

Sun Sep 18, 2022 4:41 am • 13 Replies • 3883 Views

Boldily Physique

Anyone who discourages you from pursuing your best self (and possibly adding years to your life) for some sexual thrill is not right in the head. It's no different than an anorexia fetish. I'll bash t ...

Wed Sep 14, 2022 10:46 am • 41 Replies • 12326 Views