slave vs submissive...

Nice work, Bunnie! You collected some nice variations on an always confusing fine line. The effort you put into collecting these links should be of value to many here in The Cage.

Thu Aug 30, 2018 1:36 pm • 14 Replies • 8585 Views

Seeking a Dominant mentor for task ideas

You might consider requiring a daily 'Journal" message of her thoughts regarding her submission, her daily life, questions and observations. This daily thoughtful message and your answers helps to c ...

Wed Aug 29, 2018 12:25 am • 12 Replies • 11419 Views

18 THOUSAND Members

I just noticed the counter roll over into the 18,000th member here in The Cage... Just wanted to pass along a warm Congrats to our two staffies and any others behind the scene...

Well Done

Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:33 pm • 1 Replies • 3411 Views

Suggestion Thread

Hi Cagers--

I find it most irritating that there does not appear to be any way to keep a draft of a message in progress. If you forget, and , say, go to see a new message popping up--GONE!

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Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:30 pm • 218 Replies • 115505 Views

Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

One problem in reaching out and finding a close fit is being too eager--on both sides.

After searching around for a while (maybe even only a little while) both Dom and sub are primed and ready fo ...

Wed Jul 18, 2018 11:20 pm • 149 Replies • 105175 Views

Owned

The six answers posted o far to this excellent question should shine like beacons to the many yearning submissives who have only been found by the rude and the crude in their searches --( there are w ...

Thu Jul 12, 2018 2:01 pm • 13 Replies • 10187 Views

Absolutely happens!

Your experience, and her telling you she is feeling your prowling mind are not at all unusual feelings for a natural submissive.

Those powerful feelings, of being a prey animal stalked, watched, ...

Thu Jun 28, 2018 6:41 pm • 7 Replies • 4505 Views

A red flag or not?

My reaction is that the request (demand??) to change your status on fetlife may be more a reddish flag than his communication issues, which are at best pink flags.

His trying to corral you, fence ...

Mon Jun 25, 2018 4:53 pm • 11 Replies • 9027 Views

The newbie Rude, Crude and Disgusting Gauntlet

Surely the staff is aware of a real problem on this site--

Every woman I have chatted with here has complained about the awful rain of unwanted messages received in their first few days --just a ba ...

Sat Jun 16, 2018 4:46 pm • 6 Replies • 4634 Views

Indicating 'online' in the Bond list of messaging contacts

Byrdie, I think you've offered an elegant improvement.

Fri Jun 01, 2018 4:39 am • 4 Replies • 4105 Views