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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Now this may seem like a straw man argument, but it really isn't. It is a question of morality and where one stands within the lifestyle.

You may want to answer or not. I'm not really looki ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 5:01 am • 14 Replies • 3411 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

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Insight

You’re right that subdrop can be physical, and for some people, orange juice and a blanket might be the magic fix. Lucky them. But not everyone is that simple, and suggesting that looking beyond “basi ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:43 pm • 15 Replies • 3466 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Insight

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Insight

Orange juice and a blanket doesn’t always cut it, and it feels dismissive of those that have a harder time with drop. I have been stuck in drop for days, doing all the self care things, Daddy doing al ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3466 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Insight

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Insight

Best prescription I have for subdrop is a glass of OJ and a warm blanket for a bit.

As to slipping into it: It is like a big O, anything can set it off.

So congrats and glad you had such ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 4:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3466 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Insight

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From Submissive to Switch?

I wish you great luck with it. Not all relationships can survive when one person evolves from one role to another.

My wife went from sub to switch to Domme. I told her she needed to get h ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 2:33 pm • 6 Replies • 1994 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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From Submissive to Switch?

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

Mostly I think it is deceit. Those "Doms" who contact you seeking submission to you are just looking to get their rocks off. They have no real interest in being submissive, but think you are a kink ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 2:05 am • 18 Replies • 6174 Views

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TopekaDom

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Femdom

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

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Let’s talk Roleplay

Like most ppl here, role-playing is all talk.

You are always such the cherry fellow! ??

Tue Jan 14, 2025 10:22 pm • 12 Replies • 2964 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Let’s talk Roleplay

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Let’s talk Roleplay

Costuming helps a great deal with role play, real time. It will give both sides of the collar a focus to get into the roles.

Tue Jan 14, 2025 8:27 pm • 12 Replies • 2964 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Let’s talk Roleplay

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Petty

The question is really what you mean by "Actual" kink. Are you talking scenes or a relationship?

Most of what you see on Fet is not real life kink. 90% of what you see on Kinky & Pop ...

Sun Jan 12, 2025 11:43 pm • 19 Replies • 4574 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Petty

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Beginners Luck ?

If some "Domme" tells you to buy something for them, they are a lying cunt.

But that is just me. It is just the asshole in me.

and as long as it is consensual, who you have attraction for is up ...

Sat Jan 11, 2025 1:25 am • 8 Replies • 1780 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Beginners Luck ?