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Petty

The question is really what you mean by "Actual" kink. Are you talking scenes or a relationship?

Most of what you see on Fet is not real life kink. 90% of what you see on Kinky & Pop ...

Sun Jan 12, 2025 11:43 pm • 19 Replies • 3719 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Petty

182

Beginners Luck ?

If some "Domme" tells you to buy something for them, they are a lying cunt.

But that is just me. It is just the asshole in me.

and as long as it is consensual, who you have attraction for is up ...

Sat Jan 11, 2025 1:25 am • 8 Replies • 1562 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Beginners Luck ?

183

Is shibari a dying art ?

I want to start off saying that my of my rope skills have atrophied over time. It has been a great while since I have had the chance to work with anyone to keep up.

That being said: I think most ...

Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:41 pm • 14 Replies • 4565 Views

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TopekaDom

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Femdom

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Is shibari a dying art ?

184

tributing..should mistress require for tribute and why

I think that if someone want to show themselves as a real scumbag, then sure "Tributes" are a great thing. Nothing says "Hey Look! I'm a pretend Domme and I don't know one end of a flogger from ...

Mon Jan 06, 2025 10:02 pm • 10 Replies • 3028 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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tributing..should mistress require for tribute and why

185

Trust in a 24/7 TPE Relationship

Well, I hate to tell you this but,

Trust is just never on one person. To give someone trust means they themselves have to be trustworthy. Giving someone trust who isn't is foolhardy.

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Thu Jan 02, 2025 3:22 am • 8 Replies • 1695 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Trust in a 24/7 TPE Relationship

186

Tagging members in forum posts

If you read the rules about blogging (I know you asked about forums, just work with me here), Cage is not really hip with that unless the tagee is in full agreement and with prior notice. Now I don ...

Sat Dec 28, 2024 4:31 pm • 7 Replies • 3566 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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Tagging members in forum posts

187

Could you do traditional with the dynamic

I'm not quite sure what you think I am bitter about. Someone asked a question and I answered it.

I mean, lets face it: Trad wives are just an illusion for lifestyle choices, sometimes non conse ...

Fri Dec 27, 2024 11:39 pm • 24 Replies • 4223 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Could you do traditional with the dynamic

188

Could you do traditional with the dynamic

Yeah, no.

I find 50s style household way too vanilla. For me, it is simply a way for someone too scared to really get into the lifestyle. They want to be vanilla kinky without making much of ...

Fri Dec 27, 2024 4:43 pm • 24 Replies • 4223 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Could you do traditional with the dynamic

189

How to adress a Dom/Domme...

Do you know where they live?

How can you know what to put on the envelope if you don't know where they live?

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:09 pm • 22 Replies • 5114 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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How to adress a Dom/Domme...

190

12 Days of Kinky Christmas!

I hope you all are having a Wonderous Christmas time! While you are sitting back and letting your bellies relax, please enjoy this version of a well loved song:

12 Ass a beatings
11 Dick Li ...

Wed Dec 25, 2024 7:16 pm • 2 Replies • 2941 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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12 Days of Kinky Christmas!