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Is fear a kink?

I've always found the use of fear as a control measure rather idiotic.

I can much more from an s type by trust and proper communication so I can do horrible things to them. Wanting to give ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 10:17 pm • 25 Replies • 12097 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

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Stupid Questions For Men

I have an impression that men would rather talk on the phone or in the chat with a potential match rather than type messages. Is this true? If so why?

Oh hell. I love typing for months, as long a ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 5:11 am • 69 Replies • 17700 Views

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TopekaDom

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Stupid Questions For Men

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Is fear a kink?

The question is whether it is a kink or is it an addiction.

That is why we have so many modern horror movies, people are addicted to the adrenaline rush.

Fear is also a control tool. Pretty ...

Sat Feb 01, 2025 4:40 pm • 25 Replies • 12097 Views

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TopekaDom

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Is fear a kink?

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Getting kinky

Oh!

And Branding

Being intendance of a branding ceremony once, many years ago, and remembering what the smell was like.

So no.

Fri Jan 31, 2025 3:12 pm • 11 Replies • 2963 Views

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TopekaDom

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Getting kinky

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Getting kinky

Micro Managing!

Gawd that is boring! The two times I worked with s types who were into it, I found (much later) out both were just lazy. They didn't want to have to make choices and put it of ...

Fri Jan 31, 2025 12:18 am • 11 Replies • 2963 Views

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TopekaDom

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Getting kinky

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age gaps

I mean I don't know what I would do with a 24 year old, at my age

It makes me think about Captain America's line about wanting someone with matching life experience when talking with Black Widow.
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Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:38 pm • 25 Replies • 12965 Views

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age gaps

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Why do some seek a bottom to top

Opportunism via dick brain.

I resemble that remark

Tue Jan 28, 2025 11:28 pm • 9 Replies • 2378 Views

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TopekaDom

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Why do some seek a bottom to top

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age gaps

More than likely no one really care about Bill. Everyone know she is doing it for the money and as long as they are honest with each other, more power to them.

What I think is great is older ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 10:59 pm • 25 Replies • 12965 Views

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TopekaDom

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age gaps

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Now this may seem like a straw man argument, but it really isn't. It is a question of morality and where one stands within the lifestyle.

You may want to answer or not. I'm not really looki ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 5:01 am • 14 Replies • 3842 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

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Insight

You’re right that subdrop can be physical, and for some people, orange juice and a blanket might be the magic fix. Lucky them. But not everyone is that simple, and suggesting that looking beyond “basi ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:43 pm • 15 Replies • 3749 Views

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