Should I do it?

You can set the bond to refuse any unsolicited messages. It is very handy, as it also allows you to send voice clips. I do it when I am on my cell, as my fat ass fingers are too big for cell keyboa ...

Thu Jun 20, 2024 7:49 pm • 5 Replies • 1526 Views

Is it consent or is it something more?

Reading a recent blog here dealing with the ABCs of the lifestyle, they talked about C being for Consent.

While this is a very important subject, it made me think, is this really enough?

During ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 4:18 pm • 13 Replies • 2462 Views

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

Experience in what? A particular activity? The lifestyle in general?

In the years past, I seemed to specialized in subs who were new to the lifestyle. I mean to the point where others won ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 1:25 pm • 26 Replies • 5089 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Hell No. What it is people are never fucking satisfied.

I fucking QUIT, THESE people that ain't never mofo going to be happy.

FJC. ALMIGHTY.

Maybe two rooms ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 3:56 am • 113 Replies • 28543 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Tue Jun 18, 2024 2:29 am • 113 Replies • 28543 Views

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

In my even less humble opinion, the word is not soft at all and is exactly descriptive of what can happen to people that are experiencing BDSM in the beginning. Perhaps you have missed the actual defi ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:48 pm • 10 Replies • 2726 Views

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

Basically kid in a candy store effect. WANT TO DO ALL THE THINGS NOWWWWW. Kind of the opposite of sub/Dom drop. But like Topeka said, it's a dangerous space if not taken seriously.

That's how you e ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:43 pm • 10 Replies • 2726 Views

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

I'm not quite sure what it is you are missing, as it seems rather obvious to me.

It seems to be when someone new gets into the lifestyle and over indulgences, particularly in physical activities. ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:15 pm • 10 Replies • 2726 Views

Authenticity

Define "authentic".

Mon Jun 17, 2024 12:48 am • 26 Replies • 5133 Views

Subs with mental illness

Over the years I have been active within the lifestyle, I have met a number of people who have had issues of many kinds. Myself, I have suffered from insecurity and inferiority in the past. Othe ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:30 pm • 31 Replies • 5298 Views