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Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Hell No. What it is people are never fucking satisfied.

I fucking QUIT, THESE people that ain't never mofo going to be happy.

FJC. ALMIGHTY.

Maybe two rooms ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 3:56 am • 113 Replies • 36168 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

362

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Tue Jun 18, 2024 2:29 am • 113 Replies • 36168 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

363

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

In my even less humble opinion, the word is not soft at all and is exactly descriptive of what can happen to people that are experiencing BDSM in the beginning. Perhaps you have missed the actual defi ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:48 pm • 10 Replies • 3822 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

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Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

Basically kid in a candy store effect. WANT TO DO ALL THE THINGS NOWWWWW. Kind of the opposite of sub/Dom drop. But like Topeka said, it's a dangerous space if not taken seriously.

That's how you e ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:43 pm • 10 Replies • 3822 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

365

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

I'm not quite sure what it is you are missing, as it seems rather obvious to me.

It seems to be when someone new gets into the lifestyle and over indulgences, particularly in physical activities. ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:15 pm • 10 Replies • 3822 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

366

Authenticity

Define "authentic".

Mon Jun 17, 2024 12:48 am • 26 Replies • 7055 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Authenticity

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Subs with mental illness

Over the years I have been active within the lifestyle, I have met a number of people who have had issues of many kinds. Myself, I have suffered from insecurity and inferiority in the past. Othe ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:30 pm • 31 Replies • 7109 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Subs with mental illness

368

Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?

"With Great Power, comes Great Responsibility"

(and I FUCKING hate stan lee)

When it comes to being a Dom/me, it is a case of shitting or getting off the pot. Either you do it or not ( to abu ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 6:20 pm • 6 Replies • 2205 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?

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D types as mentors

I have mentored unattached s types (both male and female)

I have mentored D/s couples (both being s types and opposite sides of the collar)

I have mentored s types who are collared and or bein ...

Tue Apr 02, 2024 7:59 pm • 23 Replies • 5901 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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D types as mentors

370

is there an "Outside world" and a "Kinky world" OR ...

Of course there are other worlds:

There are going to be those that do not want to know what we do or how we behave. People who think what we do is evil. People who will ridicule or haunt us ...

Sun Mar 31, 2024 8:39 pm • 10 Replies • 3886 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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is there an "Outside world" and a "Kinky world" OR ...