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My big question as a sub

The question becomes: Why is he limiting access to your clients.

Is he doing it out out structure for you or could be on account of jealousy?

If you have agreed to move your relationship ...

Sun Oct 15, 2023 6:47 pm • 18 Replies • 4353 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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My big question as a sub

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To Chase or not to Chase

BTW, the modern idea of learning through good example performed by others also originates in those passages.

Yeah.

No.

Sun Oct 15, 2023 4:01 am • 12 Replies • 3730 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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To Chase or not to Chase

463

First meeting

I assume you are talking about a first time real meet. Face to face kind of thing.

Always do that in a public place. Coffeeshops are a great place to do it. You will learn all kinds of things ...

Sun Oct 15, 2023 1:31 am • 10 Replies • 3019 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

First meeting

464

Leather cuffs - Furr or no Furr?

So in putting together my unnamed whatzit (I'm thinking of calling it my Pillory Lead, but not sold on that name yet), I am going to need a new set of cuffs. This is so I don't have to keep moving th ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 2:01 am • 10 Replies • 3615 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Leather cuffs - Furr or no Furr?

465

To Chase or not to Chase

So a question to those inside the collar and outside:

What is your philosophy on advancing relationships within the lifestyle? That is to say, do you pursue those you find interesting or do you w ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 12:06 am • 12 Replies • 3730 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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To Chase or not to Chase

466

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

I don't know if it is a Dom thing that we don't talk about it, or an Ego thing.

Is it we have a duty to be right all the time? Do we not want to show that we make mistakes and have to pay fo ...

Fri Oct 13, 2023 4:22 am • 11 Replies • 3482 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

467

Slap Happy ?

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Fri Oct 13, 2023 12:37 am • 52 Replies • 9343 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Slap Happy ?

468

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

Yes.

Yes we do. During my time within the lifestyle, I have encountered a double handful of those who I originally thought were going to be wonderful, then turn into horror shows under the full m ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 12:47 pm • 11 Replies • 3482 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

469

Lifestyle BDSM

To be honest, there are very few people who do it 24/7.

Even when I was full throttle, years ago, there were times when I would lapse into vanillahood. Doing 24/7 is very hard and takes a grea ...

Wed Oct 11, 2023 1:07 pm • 18 Replies • 4030 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Lifestyle BDSM

470

Aftercare - Newbie

Warm blankets and orange juice. Specially right after a scene.

Mon Oct 09, 2023 11:08 pm • 9 Replies • 1833 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Aftercare - Newbie