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When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

I'm honestly curious how punching or kicking is even executed safely from a body mechanics viewpoint. Like how does one control an impact like that to cause pain, but without damage?

The sub I knew ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 4:45 am • 5 Replies • 1571 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

482

Dominant Styles

My style is something that has worked for very few, as it is the very few who understands it.

I don't hunt. I don't pursue.

Instead, I talk and educate. I draw verbal pictures how things sh ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:14 pm • 19 Replies • 5800 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Dominant Styles

483

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

If I have to use a closed fist, then, yeah no.

Yes I have known s types who love black eyes and gut punches, but I tain't doing that.

I'll bite, scratch, slap, hard pinch, tit squeeze, hair ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:47 am • 5 Replies • 1571 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

484

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

I can't believe I haven't chimed in on this one (at least up to page 5, then I quit looking)

In my day things ran:

Master/Mistress: Owner of property
Dom/me: had/could have subs
Tops: play p ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:19 am • 87 Replies • 22466 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

485

Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

Mainly as they have gotten old, it becomes more of service than as physical play. Although even in service, things like kneeling can be troublesome. As is all things within the lifestyle, it takes ...

Sat Sep 23, 2023 6:55 pm • 33 Replies • 7224 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

486

My Way or the Highway

Mainly this question is for the Dom/mes, but anyone is free to post a reply:

Do you have items that are non negotiable when it comes to establishing a relationship with a new s type? Is everythi ...

Sat Sep 23, 2023 3:47 pm • 6 Replies • 2017 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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My Way or the Highway

487

Ownership

Well from an Old School view, BEING collared meant being owned. The thing was understanding, back then, what wearing a collar meant to someone.

These days it is simple an ornament. A fashion ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 12:47 pm • 11 Replies • 4514 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Ownership

488

Re: BDSM is....

Secondly, Honor
Again, not just the sub to the Dom/me but from the Dom/me to the s type. When we take someone under our wing, we owe it to them to see to their well being. Their duty to us de ...

Thu Sep 21, 2023 2:30 pm • 7 Replies • 2230 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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BDSM is....

489

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

What's your position on this, TopekaDom? As a dom, would you rather have your sub be honest with you or would you rather they keep it to themselves so you could enjoy your scene? Let's open up the dis ...

Wed Sep 20, 2023 9:19 pm • 40 Replies • 9964 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

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Kink Clubs Convo

No such thing as too much information. Good job!

Mon Sep 18, 2023 11:31 pm • 10 Replies • 3131 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Kink Clubs Convo