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Posts by TopekaDom(dom male){✶}

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481

To Chase or not to Chase

So a question to those inside the collar and outside:

What is your philosophy on advancing relationships within the lifestyle? That is to say, do you pursue those you find interesting or do you w ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 12:06 am • 12 Replies • 4450 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

To Chase or not to Chase

482

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

I don't know if it is a Dom thing that we don't talk about it, or an Ego thing.

Is it we have a duty to be right all the time? Do we not want to show that we make mistakes and have to pay fo ...

Fri Oct 13, 2023 4:22 am • 11 Replies • 4324 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

483

Slap Happy ?

Edited to remove content.

Fri Oct 13, 2023 12:37 am • 52 Replies • 11277 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Slap Happy ?

484

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

Yes.

Yes we do. During my time within the lifestyle, I have encountered a double handful of those who I originally thought were going to be wonderful, then turn into horror shows under the full m ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 12:47 pm • 11 Replies • 4324 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

485

Lifestyle BDSM

To be honest, there are very few people who do it 24/7.

Even when I was full throttle, years ago, there were times when I would lapse into vanillahood. Doing 24/7 is very hard and takes a grea ...

Wed Oct 11, 2023 1:07 pm • 18 Replies • 4711 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Lifestyle BDSM

486

Aftercare - Newbie

Warm blankets and orange juice. Specially right after a scene.

Mon Oct 09, 2023 11:08 pm • 9 Replies • 2398 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Aftercare - Newbie

487

Profile Layout ~ Problems

It appears the text is in bold typeface?

Sun Oct 08, 2023 12:34 am • 10 Replies • 8241 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

Profile Layout ~ Problems

488

Profile Layout ~ Problems

With Cage being based on Israel, there may be problems with the site for a bit.

Sun Oct 08, 2023 12:06 am • 10 Replies • 8241 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

Profile Layout ~ Problems

489

OTK

- spank me with the paddle
- spank me with the belt
- spank me with the crop
- spank me with the flogger
- spank me with a wooden spoon (ok, that wasn’t my Dom - but my mom would spank me with kit ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 2:19 am • 20 Replies • 5066 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

OTK

490

OTK

I refer to other spankings as impact play. But barehanded, a spanking. Experienced OTK recently for the first time and YEP. Definitely different ?

Get your hair pulled?

Fri Oct 06, 2023 7:30 pm • 20 Replies • 5066 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

OTK