Things you wish you had known....

It's not beginner me that I'd like to speak to, I feel like I was more in tune with myself back then like I am again now. It is 'after the first breakup' me that I would like to warn. I'd tell myself ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 6:24 am • 40 Replies • 10597 Views

Intelligence in s types

I agree with Miki I think the level of Intelligence each person desires is subjective. When it all comes down to it most people are going to pick the person that matches them the best. Also to that po ...

Mon Apr 05, 2021 6:06 am • 70 Replies • 15021 Views

How do you like to be approached?

I am very rarely approached but those who try and succeed with me are the ones who just start with a simple conversation. I like things that grow organically because I've found if you force it or you ...

Mon Mar 29, 2021 7:56 pm • 23 Replies • 5498 Views

Taboo kinks

Oh, how I wish the last sentence above was true for me but I agree with the rest; not being afraid or judging others for what they like.

I suspect a lot of it is an attitude, if you whisper about y ...

Fri Mar 26, 2021 5:35 pm • 22 Replies • 8825 Views

stoic Doms?

I don't think it is, I'm considered quite stoic as a woman and a sub but it's not because I don't feel things I'm just not very outwardly expressive of my emotions; it's just the way I am. I'm not act ...

Sun Jan 24, 2021 11:53 pm • 10 Replies • 3258 Views

The Hottest Things Your Partner has Ever Said...

Ah I remember the growl...

He stood up close behind me speaking in my ear with his hand around my neck and said.
"Now kneel, and show me what you learned."

Damn, That still makes me shiver whe ...

Sun Jan 10, 2021 10:14 am • 38 Replies • 7537 Views

Wearing stuff by yourself- subs

I know I do, sometimes if you're feeling a certain way it's kind of nice. I even have an outfit that I wear sometimes that I wear my leather wrist cuffs as accessories for (I like things that have mul ...

Thu Nov 26, 2020 8:27 am • 14 Replies • 5046 Views

Online Vs Real

I know the struggle of online vs RL relationships because I do understand how fulfilling they can be. I've expirenced both but I don't trust online relationships anymore because of my expirences parti ...

Wed Oct 28, 2020 8:06 pm • 57 Replies • 15473 Views

When subs get burnt out

I'm going to skip over any finger pointing and say what I took away from this post. I don't think that by "real" OP meant to pigionhole people into any certain category. My takeaway was that they were ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 10:11 pm • 16 Replies • 5144 Views

In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

Showing my true self, safe, free to kneel without judgement, under the guiding hand of someone who's expectation is nothing more than my surrender to their will.

Mon Sep 28, 2020 7:58 pm • 61 Replies • 14262 Views