Political differences

This migh be narrow minded of me, but for me it would depend on the matter.
I find that even if I can respect different takes on issues, it’s harder to get past if there are core values involved.
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Wed Feb 14, 2024 12:14 am • 24 Replies • 2367 Views

Do Subs Have A Martyr Complex?

No. My desire to submit/serve has always come from a place of attachment and connection.

It's of course arguable whether either is healthier.

But to me a martyr complex is more about believing ...

Mon Feb 12, 2024 5:49 am • 25 Replies • 2305 Views

In Need of Explanation or Education

Playing nice is all well and good. I wouldn't want anyone new to the scene, unsure of appropriate behaviours and attitudes, to in any way think situations like that, presented in that style, describe ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 9:39 am • 36 Replies • 3779 Views

In Need of Explanation or Education

You mean someone made sense of this post?

I gave up on it in the middle of the second paragraph. It sounded way too much like someone who had no idea what he was talking about , but continued to ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 7:55 am • 36 Replies • 3779 Views

Life Hacks

Avoid idiots.

Sat Feb 10, 2024 4:12 am • 23 Replies • 1388 Views

Feeling valued

No. Not unless that is part of your particular humiliation kink.

What does anyone do to make another feel significant and valued?

A person listens, acknowledges, makes time, makes space. Makes g ...

Wed Jan 31, 2024 12:04 am • 10 Replies • 1574 Views

Long distance, when it is time to meet

Any first meet for me has always been on neutral territory. Usually a coffee shop first. Then a hotel. With safe calls.

Depends on the level of discussion and engagement to date, eg how much phon ...

Tue Jan 30, 2024 5:12 am • 8 Replies • 1144 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

Eh. What constitutes copy paste? A word for word generic prompt ctrl+C/ctrl+V to every person? Some sites do offer features like that such as mass email 'icebreakers' to promote your profile. What abo ...

Tue Dec 26, 2023 8:03 am • 63 Replies • 6615 Views

Disconnected 'profiles'

And E types, well... 'you have to believe we are magic...' Bonus points to anyone who gets that reference. 😁

Olivia knows the answer to that one.

Woo hoo! 🤣😁

Sun Dec 24, 2023 9:55 am • 20 Replies • 2714 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

I would go as far as saying putting in a big effort has been negatively correlated to “success”.
My theory is: if you heat up a cheeseburger for someone and they get all excited the summit is ne ...

Sun Dec 24, 2023 9:42 am • 63 Replies • 6615 Views