Re: Locked in Closet to Sleep

Do any doms or subs find the time the sub spends tied up and gagged in the closet to sleep overnight is an effective way for the sub to have a lot of time to reflect on her goals as a good sun or woul ...

Sat May 27, 2023 11:58 pm • 34 Replies • 6054 Views

Re: Making the first move

For me BDSM is all about open and clear communication. As such I try to make my interest and expectations clear while being respectful. If the profile is detailed enough, I try to make the reason for ...

Sat May 27, 2023 11:45 pm • 26 Replies • 4523 Views

The Word "Mold"

Cinderella, the answer to your question is in your profile. You see yourself as a sub not a slave. In my experience slaves wish to be molded because they crave to be more than what they were before th ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 5:56 pm • 10 Replies • 4355 Views

Opening Up

The problem is usually related to honesty and people's biased perception of poly as being inherently dishonest. Given SSC BDSM is inherently based on honesty, I am assuming you make it clear to your p ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 5:46 pm • 11 Replies • 4364 Views

What is TPE ?

While dictionaries are useful, please remember that people have a way of redefining terms for themselves. So TPE may mean very different things to different Doms and subs. For me, TPE means the sub de ...

Thu Feb 20, 2020 10:34 pm • 7 Replies • 5229 Views

Re: Prioritizing/Scheduling

My own method uses a daily review time where we both commit to spending time together 1 on 1 at a specified time. For me that is 10.30 pm at night. Personally, i use that to review the day, talk about ...

Mon Aug 19, 2019 9:22 am • 15 Replies • 7418 Views

Gift for Dom/Daddy

Can you think of some service he would like that you have been too scared to try or that he was too much of a gentleman to ask for? The best gifts I have received over the years were always some form ...

Mon Aug 19, 2019 9:10 am • 5 Replies • 3898 Views

Relationship advice needed

D/s relationships actually require more communication than vanilla ones. Long distance relationships also have their own difficulties. If you are back in country in a month, wait till then and get cla ...

Wed Feb 21, 2018 11:06 am • 9 Replies • 7083 Views

Be careful about becoming an accidental slave

Usually I would not critique another Dom because there is no right way to D/s. As long as the Dom and the sub are adults and they agree on terms, (and sanity regarding safety is observed) it is usuall ...

Sat Feb 17, 2018 4:21 am • 14 Replies • 14792 Views