a question for Doms

One doesn't become a Dom.

One finds its innate nature and purifies it.

Exactly how it has been for me so far (still very much developing). Starting to play a bit kinky in what was basically a f ...

Thu Aug 28, 2025 9:31 am • 28 Replies • 11857 Views

Sex vs lust vs love

Well sex is great. I struggle to seperate sex from love, lust and in fact kink.

When I lust her, it is because she turns me on so much, always. So, sometimes we make love and sometimes we have sex ...

Mon Jun 23, 2025 12:48 pm • 13 Replies • 2668 Views

Do men really like women?

I think it is likely we have all found ourselves in relationships with people we don't really like. I know I had a few, that I liked in bed, but no other time. That is not a relationship that is ever ...

Sat May 03, 2025 11:56 am • 117 Replies • 20479 Views

As a masochist, what do you like and dislike about pain?

Thank you all for the replies.

Yes, she is a masochist, no doubt. She is seriously turned on by some of our pain play.

Very much I am taking her well being and pleasure into consideration. The m ...

Sat May 03, 2025 11:45 am • 8 Replies • 1561 Views

A Question for those Dom/mes who give Golden Showers....

Funny thing, never gave a golden shower. But it came up recently in conversation. Its on the cards.
We do swap my cum back and forth, if she hasn't swallowed it, or I suck my cum back out from her p ...

Fri May 02, 2025 3:36 pm • 8 Replies • 3929 Views

Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

As a dom, submission must be real, true and pure, otherwise of no use to me. If submission is put on, that will never work and would destroy the sub dom relationship I have with my slut. She is submi ...

Fri May 02, 2025 3:19 pm • 21 Replies • 9363 Views

Is fear a kink?

I think fear works in very well with power play, from a Dom perspective at least.

My slut does not do anal. She had a bad experience years before she became my property. Now, she knows I intend to ...

Fri May 02, 2025 1:07 pm • 25 Replies • 9405 Views

Re: Never have I ever - kink Edition

Let's play never have I ever.
If someone comments something you have done then like the post, then comment your own "never have I ever".
I'll go first:

Never have I ever gotten off through penet ...

Fri May 02, 2025 12:47 pm • 32 Replies • 11646 Views

As a masochist, what do you like and dislike about pain?

Questions for the masochists among us. I am sadistic, btw.

As a masochist, what do you like and dislike about pain?
How does good pain give you pleasure, what do you feel?
What do you like about ...

Fri May 02, 2025 12:41 pm • 8 Replies • 1561 Views

How did you get started.

It would be interesting to know how everyone got into this.

probably going to different for everyone, simply because it is so many things for so many people.

For us, as a couple, it has so far ...

Sat Mar 01, 2025 2:22 pm • 21 Replies • 8719 Views