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A question

Best way I can describe it when it feels the best is it’s like a warm embrace and an inviting kiss. But the sensation is also unique in that it works like the opposite of dropping a stone in a pool. ...

Mon Jan 05, 2026 9:47 pm • 9 Replies • 2138 Views

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SubStanChill

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Generally Speaking

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A question

Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient

Apologies, but I think there is an important distinction from being “obedient” and being “submissive”.

I do not think you can at all call yourself obedient if your actions go against your domme/do ...

Tue Nov 25, 2025 6:04 am • 20 Replies • 5211 Views

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SubStanChill

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Femdom

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Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient

Can't seem to meet a dominant women

I second what Steellover said. For the long term, focus on building a relationship in which the dynamic can comfortably find a place. Don’t start the dynamic, expecting it to blossom into a relations ...

Thu Nov 20, 2025 6:56 am • 37 Replies • 8747 Views

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SubStanChill

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Femdom

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Can't seem to meet a dominant women

I found a woman who was naturally dominant, but vanilla and had never considered BDSM. Slowly but surely as trust was built we steadily introduced more BDSM aspects.

Wed Nov 19, 2025 1:59 am • 37 Replies • 8747 Views

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SubStanChill

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Femdom

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Can't seem to meet a dominant women

Why do some submissives enjoy a rough and sloppy facefuck?

I think the pressure, the feeling of force both from her hand pressing my head and her forcing her genitals, makes it feel more real. More objectified. That my domme is just taking things into her own ...

Mon Nov 17, 2025 3:48 pm • 52 Replies • 24244 Views

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SubStanChill

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Fetish

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Why do some submissives enjoy a rough and sloppy facefuck?

Cum play

Not too much to add to what’s already been said. The only thing that I think is worth remembering is to not feel guilty about shutting that door, especially if you’re more than willing to open and ex ...

Mon Nov 17, 2025 7:17 am • 7 Replies • 1724 Views

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SubStanChill

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Cum play

Open dynamics

That 12 hours with someone else on one of your few days off is big. It’s something like that where it seems less like you have an open relationship and more like he sees you as a casual hook up.
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Wed Oct 22, 2025 6:19 am • 15 Replies • 4471 Views

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SubStanChill

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Open dynamics

Funny Thoughts in the Heat of the Moment

1. Oh No!!! I Do Not Like Thaaaahhhh… NVM… DON’T STOP!
2. Hey, I think she learned to thrust like that from me. Neat!

Sun Oct 19, 2025 12:45 am • 11 Replies • 2550 Views

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SubStanChill

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Just for Fun

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Funny Thoughts in the Heat of the Moment

Are you Submissive....

- SUBMIT
- REVERE
- SUCCOR
- PLEASE

Fri Oct 17, 2025 12:34 am • 2 Replies • 4497 Views

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SubStanChill

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Just for Fun

Topic

Are you Submissive....

Humiliation kink

Pure Conjecture but my personal hypothesis is that it’s Pavlovian, stemming back to conditioning in teen years. Back then two things were true, I was the most insecure I had ever been, and my sex driv ...

Sun Oct 12, 2025 5:47 am • 18 Replies • 5926 Views

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SubStanChill

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Generally Speaking

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Humiliation kink