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Posts by Heart of Persephone(sub female){Self owner}

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Cumming multiple times vs only cumming a few times

everyone is different. Edging for me is fun for awhile and when I do cum, it is an endorphin rush and the drop that I will fall asleep. Edge me too long my body goes into what I call "sleep mode" wher ...

Sun Mar 01, 2026 11:20 am • 11 Replies • 987 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Cumming multiple times vs only cumming a few times

Punishments

Why is there so much talk of how a sub should be / will be punished?
Ive noticed lately that there is much discussion on punishments- how do I punish? Do I punish them for this or that? Punishmen ...

Tue Feb 24, 2026 2:49 pm • 16 Replies • 1048 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Punishments

How do I do this?

you are a submissive, but that does not mean you are a submissive to all Doms. So if a Dom starts chatting you up, and demands you act according- remind him firmly that you are not his submissive. B ...

Tue Feb 24, 2026 1:57 pm • 8 Replies • 585 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

How do I do this?

Brand new to this, but older guy... does that make me a freak?

Never too old to embrace your inner kink and be who you really are.

Tue Feb 24, 2026 1:50 pm • 3 Replies • 153 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Introductions

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Brand new to this, but older guy... does that make me a freak?

Is this a kink or just D/s in general?

I think it’s part of any relationship vanilla or D/s. But I think on the D/s side the D goes a mile further in the understanding because he has to completely understand her for the dynamic to work.

Tue Feb 17, 2026 12:49 pm • 16 Replies • 1175 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Is this a kink or just D/s in general?

Matchmaker

There are days when I think there should be a Professional Matchmaker for the D/s lifestyle. where you sit and meet with them and are able to describe everything and they would know the right questio ...

Thu Feb 05, 2026 1:39 pm • 4 Replies • 599 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Matchmaker

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

Everyone has a fetish, EVERYONE. But people hear the word Fetish- they automatically think the person is a perv and sexual deviant.

I wont judge that you may get off humping a shiny chrome ball hit ...

Sun Jan 04, 2026 1:11 pm • 14 Replies • 1282 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Fetish

Topic

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

Prey

To me Prey kink is part of Primal kink, some may not house those together. Prey is primal submissive, being caught and claimed by the predator in a primal way. to me it is wordless, very guttural, ins ...

Sat Dec 27, 2025 5:13 pm • 6 Replies • 1381 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Fetish

Topic

Prey

Age gap kink

I too have an age gap kink. as I'm getting older the gap is harder to find LOL. much easier when I was teen 20's.
But seriously, to me age gap feels so natural. I do not know why but it does. I don ...

Sat Dec 27, 2025 5:00 pm • 9 Replies • 1467 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

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Fetish

Topic

Age gap kink

How do you navigate establishing trust in a new dynamic/relationship?

I am the most trusting person out there I will look for the best in everyone. I will take their word for it. I will ask lots of questions. get deep in conversations. If you want to trust someone you h ...

Mon Dec 22, 2025 10:07 pm • 24 Replies • 2137 Views

Author

Heart of Persephone

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How do you navigate establishing trust in a new dynamic/relationship?