Initialism

I tried to get folks to tell me what they were and why they chose it. It was their big chance to explain it but I got zero input. Recently I had to look up demi-sexual. I'd never heard of it before. B ...

Thu Feb 08, 2024 9:16 pm • 24 Replies • 1196 Views

Kink Clubs Convo

its embarassing for a sub but also exciting

What???

Mon Sep 18, 2023 9:56 pm • 10 Replies • 1022 Views

Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

I recently was fortunate to sit in on a class taught by Hardy Haberman about this very subject. It was very informative and explained it better than I’ve ever heard.

This is a link to an article ...

Mon Sep 04, 2023 2:02 am • 20 Replies • 2131 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

I live the lifestyle in person. I am part of a community and I’ve been involved in the lifestyle for 20 years. I also do not believe in “one twue way” BS. That being said I stand by what I said. Most ...

Tue Aug 22, 2023 7:11 pm • 21 Replies • 2378 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

Submissives by nature are “alpha” in their entire lives. They are Type A, driven, control freaks, the ones who get shit done. You aren’t special if this is how you identify, it’s common. For there to ...

Mon Aug 21, 2023 5:52 pm • 21 Replies • 2378 Views

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I would say, in response to djinni, that I am speaking from the perspective of someone who HAS been raped and assaulted and victim blamed and victim shamed. I’ve been scared to leave my house. I’ve be ...

Thu Aug 17, 2023 7:25 pm • 25 Replies • 2494 Views

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

She posted pics of her naked breasts, she’s brought this on herself……

She was wearing a short skirt… she was asking for it.

I don’t give a crap of your reasoning, this is the same. Even if she ...

Thu Aug 17, 2023 6:58 pm • 25 Replies • 2494 Views

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

Too many to mention.

Of all the utter mysogonist BS I’ve ever heard.

Sat Jul 29, 2023 6:16 am • 36 Replies • 5012 Views

What do you consider to be "Sharing"

You answered the question in the title yourself. The question should have been the one in the last paragraph.

Also… no one “must” do anything. You posted in a public forum, you get what you get. ...

Sat Jul 22, 2023 10:50 pm • 12 Replies • 1894 Views

Self Care

2: I know pshycoplogy and talk to therapists without paying them..

Good to know that your state has generous complimentary mental health services for those that need it and glad you take advantag ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 10:58 am • 22 Replies • 1943 Views