Collars

My very first scene a collar was buckled around my neck. The Dominant (Who I would eventually be owned by), spoke at great lengths to make me understand that it was a play collar and meant only that I ...

Tue May 28, 2019 3:12 am • 33 Replies • 19715 Views

V or Triangle?

Currently I’m in a V, I have a Dominant and a gf. I’m hoping that it will work itself into a triangle.... we are working towards that as they develop a relationship.

Mon May 20, 2019 4:43 am • 38 Replies • 11789 Views

Casual BDSM?

It seems I might be in the minority on this subject. I must “like” people I have sex or BDSM play with, but love and emotions haven’t been required in a long time. I guess I compartmentalize well? ...

Tue Dec 04, 2018 2:13 am • 13 Replies • 12645 Views

Alternative Names?

I call my primary sub .. My Darlin' the "my" is enough for him to feel owned and bland enough that non kinkers never bat an eye at it.

“my” never fails to turn me inside out.

Tue Oct 23, 2018 7:24 am • 19 Replies • 9520 Views

Hi, slut

Generally, I just roll my eyes and move on. Though I’ve been known to rip someone a new one if they catch me on the wrong day.

I was taught to always be polite to a Dominant ... BUT what my mentor ...

Fri Sep 14, 2018 2:22 am • 70 Replies • 33802 Views

What do you do for fun? / What type of D/S are you?

What kind of sub am I? Master and I say that we are Master/slave..some may disagree.... but it is our definition and how we live that matters.

I am a dog rescuer, which is how I spend much of m ...

Fri Sep 14, 2018 2:18 am • 35 Replies • 21012 Views

Submissive Neediness

I struggle with this so much! We have a tremendous amount of history, but our current relationship is relatively new (7 months).

As everyone has stated, communication is key. For me, I write ema ...

Thu Sep 13, 2018 4:34 pm • 16 Replies • 13033 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I was reading someone’s blog post and they were telling a funny story about joe they got their screen name. I thought it might be fun to share the origins of our names. Anyone have a great story??

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Tue Sep 11, 2018 4:25 am • 267 Replies • 105704 Views

What are other methods for pain, nothing permanent, when playing?

Is this for you to do to yourself?

Clothespins are great ... cheap toy, can be used any number of ways and "fun" putting them on and taking them off.

Tue Sep 11, 2018 12:45 am • 20 Replies • 9304 Views

What is the nicest thing your Dom has ever said to you?

“You ARE my most precious possession. Never lost that feeling”

To be honest He says some crazy romantic things at times. I could go on and on and gush... but y’all would likely ban me from the foru ...

Sat Sep 08, 2018 5:49 am • 8 Replies • 5187 Views