being rude

You don’t owe anyone anything…. Period.

You have every right to hold things back and take the time to learn to trust someone before you open your whole world to someone. Sounds like gaslighting to ...

Sat Jul 23, 2022 7:01 pm • 35 Replies • 6224 Views

Soulmate / Twin Flame

I found mine, here, in chat of all places. I could wax poetically (and have in my blog here) about my love for my boi, indefinitely. I wasn’t looking for anything, nor was she, but we were very drawn ...

Sun Apr 03, 2022 6:16 pm • 20 Replies • 4737 Views

Why are there so many super young women grooming themselves for a dark path?

There are several reasons for this and mostly it is just a personal choice but we are living in the era of the sheep generation. Instead of thinking for ourselves people have begun to just follow the ...

Sat May 08, 2021 5:45 pm • 19 Replies • 5199 Views

Am I crazy?

Just echoing what others have said... you are WAY out of line. Demanding anything from anyone you’ve know a day is insane.

Google “vetting in BDSM” and actually read and learn how to build a BDSM ...

Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:22 am • 33 Replies • 8178 Views

The Tattoo

My logo, insignia, symbol , house stone. Designed personally, used only by me for my means. Copy righted of course. Branded my first slave with it and have the legal right to have it or its parts re ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 10:20 pm • 30 Replies • 9664 Views

Is it common? (Possibly wrong Thread to post in, sorry if so.)

That is a huge red flag IMO. It's like boarding an airplane and the pilot asks for "help" in how to fly the plane!

Sorry to say, but you are incorrect and if you are giving advice I’d suggest perha ...

Sat Mar 13, 2021 8:30 pm • 18 Replies • 4216 Views

Why is it so hard

Those are the people to run from... far and fast. Video or voice confirmation was a must early on for me, but I wouldn’t demand much more until we got to a point that it was obvious that we were vetti ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 7:50 pm • 20 Replies • 5366 Views

Looking for special someone

People hate “unicorn hunters”, which is likely why you aren’t getting responses. While there is a small poly community here, but the majority of members seem to be seeking one on one romantic/kink rel ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 6:59 pm • 9 Replies • 2181 Views

I'm so embarrassed

*looks at our bedroom & Laura*

Get a girlfriend? Lmao!

Sat Dec 19, 2020 3:46 am • 4 Replies • 2338 Views

Help please

You have to build things on communication and trust. I understand how he felt you were out of line. As dM said, references and background checks are pretty standard but I would never deign to do so w ...

Sat Dec 12, 2020 10:03 pm • 32 Replies • 7930 Views