Why is it so hard

Those are the people to run from... far and fast. Video or voice confirmation was a must early on for me, but I wouldn’t demand much more until we got to a point that it was obvious that we were vetti ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 7:50 pm • 20 Replies • 5941 Views

Looking for special someone

People hate “unicorn hunters”, which is likely why you aren’t getting responses. While there is a small poly community here, but the majority of members seem to be seeking one on one romantic/kink rel ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 6:59 pm • 9 Replies • 2454 Views

I'm so embarrassed

*looks at our bedroom & Laura*

Get a girlfriend? Lmao!

Sat Dec 19, 2020 3:46 am • 4 Replies • 2560 Views

Help please

You have to build things on communication and trust. I understand how he felt you were out of line. As dM said, references and background checks are pretty standard but I would never deign to do so w ...

Sat Dec 12, 2020 10:03 pm • 32 Replies • 8598 Views

Does Money Matter?

Yes it matters, but it shouldn't though.
This kind of relates to male and female nature.

Women likes to "date up", and men like to "date down".
Women naturally want someone that is stronger, tal ...

Tue Dec 01, 2020 1:19 am • 95 Replies • 39927 Views

Squishmallows

Laura and I love them.... they are so comforting and squishy.

Mon Nov 23, 2020 12:24 am • 2 Replies • 1471 Views

Help! Preparing for punishment....

Listen to Bonnie.... I was going to say the same thing. Do as you are told to do when he arrives. Any deviation could be seen as an attempt to sway or coerce him out of the punishment. Take your punis ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 10:09 am • 27 Replies • 11193 Views

Plus-Size Sub

If you have anxiety about telling someone that you are plus sized, maybe share that in your profile. Put it there unashamedly and leave it at that. Back in my days of searching, that’s what I’d do... ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 8:57 am • 38 Replies • 13976 Views

My Sub talking to her old online dom

I did read it. I have been there, though I can't speak for her, that is not hiding. That is embarrassment. If I had to feel bad for every unsolicited dick pick I got unexpectedly, or every male I ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 9:32 pm • 30 Replies • 11166 Views

Sadism and Masochism

Thanks for the award 👍

Don’t be too flattered, he’s obviously creeping.

Tue Sep 01, 2020 4:58 pm • 54 Replies • 10405 Views