When disobediance is the RIGHT thing.

Awe pass the tissues! I know this wasnt easy for you to write, thank you for sharing. *Hugs*

Wed Nov 07, 2018 7:37 am • 7 Replies • 3826 Views

Alternative Names?

Pretty much anything that begins with 'my' and I melt.

Tue Nov 06, 2018 6:05 am • 19 Replies • 8681 Views

Submissive Tendencies

For me, I've always been a people pleaser. I would go out of my way to make someone happy, pleased, and desire my presence. I don't think that made me a submissive though, as I'm still learning to bet ...

Tue Nov 06, 2018 5:52 am • 10 Replies • 8390 Views

Bear competition

Congratulations!! So wonderful!! And thank you for all the updates, it was exciting following along with you!

Sun Nov 04, 2018 1:37 pm • 40 Replies • 15200 Views

Long Distance Ideas

I would first suggest finding a Dom you're compatible with. One that you'd want to willingly submit to, rather than needing it enforced or a list of punishments handy for when you don't. When you're g ...

Fri Nov 02, 2018 6:27 pm • 4 Replies • 3432 Views

Help me teach my husband to be a dom.

He'll learn a lot by reading up on BDSM, listening to podcasts, even joining the Cage and talking with other Dom's. Joining local munches would probably be helpful too. Best of luck to you both as you ...

Wed Oct 31, 2018 8:43 pm • 28 Replies • 14030 Views

Wired differently?

Wow that's an interesting article! I also was not around cats and I don't have kitty or kitten in my name so I think some of us must just be wired differently. *Wink*

I can relate to Bunnie about ...

Wed Oct 31, 2018 3:08 pm • 25 Replies • 10726 Views

Tips for a first meet

Great post idea, Bunnie! I keep first meets on a vanilla level. Coffee and talk type of thing. If I'm ever in a dynamic again, I will use a safeguard contact. We were talking about that in chat recent ...

Thu Oct 25, 2018 4:38 pm • 23 Replies • 9351 Views

Just something to brighten up your Sunday morning...Smile

Adam Levine *drool* lol

Fri Oct 19, 2018 12:01 am • 7 Replies • 3689 Views

Age In The BDSM and D/s Lifestyle

Hi dom con, I've come across many who are under 30 years old. I'm not really surprised by younger men claiming to be doms. I fully believe they are here to learn and gain experience and I welcome them ...

Thu Oct 18, 2018 12:07 pm • 9 Replies • 5047 Views