Favorite Place to Live

We live in New Mexico.
We LOVE it here.
We threw monthly events and a weekend event before COVID.
The weather is amazing here- temperate...

Sat Nov 26, 2022 8:38 am • 10 Replies • 1188 Views

minimalist bondage

Just tell them where to stand or hold themselves. All bondage starts with the mind ..

Sat Nov 26, 2022 2:35 am • 21 Replies • 4901 Views

Question from a beginner

Ok- so questions:

You are the D/D and she is your? What?

Secondly- are you guys poly in relationships or play?

Thirdly- was this guy invited and if so by whom?

Fourth- is this other guy a ...

Sat Nov 26, 2022 2:34 am • 9 Replies • 2048 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

My boundaries have changed as I have gotten older.
Basically now- I dont do anything where the other parties cannot give explicit consent.

Everything else is open.

Sat Nov 26, 2022 2:29 am • 20 Replies • 4287 Views

Remote chastity cage idea

Love this idea!

Also freeze the spare key in a block of ice

Mon Nov 07, 2022 8:53 pm • 11 Replies • 3843 Views

Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

Pro: you can lie through your teeth- be anyone you want to be- pretend, you do not have to fully invest.


Con: same....

Sat Nov 05, 2022 9:55 pm • 60 Replies • 15373 Views

What characteristics do you look for in a potential dom/sub?

2 way conversation
A brain
Drive

Without these nothing else matters to me.

Sat Nov 05, 2022 7:21 am • 16 Replies • 2758 Views

Tasks rewards punishments

Heres a thought for an assignment.

Each of you mastubate seperately.

Focus on and write down what fantasy brings you to climax.
Then share and build a scene around that.

Wed Nov 02, 2022 8:20 pm • 10 Replies • 3598 Views

The right pairing for mentorship?

Depends on what you want and need.

Mentoring can quickly become an abusive and manipulative situation.

In the right circumstances a mentor can be a great thing.
However, it is critical that ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 8:17 pm • 8 Replies • 1311 Views

Doms willing to occasionally be submissive

We are in a 24/7 M/s for the last 23 years.

I switch occasionally- only to Beloved- only with sex...

I dont consider myself a switch.

Wed Nov 02, 2022 7:13 pm • 18 Replies • 3157 Views