will i ever find the one?

YOUR SIZE IS A PRIZE

Be proud. Stand tall.
Only accept offers from people who love bigger bodies.
If they cant love and appreciate every fold- fuck them.

The more confident you are the more ...

Sun Dec 29, 2019 8:05 pm • 12 Replies • 5654 Views

New

If your S-Type is willing to teach you. Then you have gold. So make sure that you listen. Its important to understand that your journey on becoming a D-type is a lifelong journey. So give yourself ti ...

Sun Dec 29, 2019 8:00 pm • 4 Replies • 3181 Views

Insights on my new agreement

Hello.

Ok- lots to address here.
First- I don't use corporal punishment and your story is the reason why. It can lead to feelings of resentment. And may or may not create an emotional release. If ...

Sun Dec 29, 2019 7:53 pm • 13 Replies • 7719 Views

Teaching new subs how to serve

APPLAUSE!!!

Sun Dec 22, 2019 7:06 am • 11 Replies • 18619 Views

I Kinda Need Help... (I had no clue where to put this so its in generally speaking)

If I am reading this correctly your partner has both said and demonstrated his disinterest in BDSM.

What you are doing through is pretty common anong people that are first finding themselves desi ...

Sat Dec 21, 2019 4:25 am • 14 Replies • 6962 Views

Fetishes/ Kinks

I once had a friend say that people who were into leather had a fetish for rules !!!

Sat Dec 21, 2019 4:16 am • 13 Replies • 5849 Views

Am I on the right path?

As a new Dom it is very easy to be manipulated and undermined. There is a distinct difference between people who serve with absolute joy, and for the joy of serving. There are also people who serve w ...

Mon Dec 09, 2019 9:02 pm • 5 Replies • 4487 Views

Is this for me??

Easy there.


This is when BDSM becomes too serious to the detriment of its players.

BDSM is not pass/ fail.

It's supposed to be fun. It's supposed to help you grow and learn about yoursel ...

Mon Dec 09, 2019 8:54 pm • 9 Replies • 4778 Views

Red, yellow, green... evolves

Do you review a contract?

I dont believe in contracts.


Have a formal discussion?

Yes and no.

What if you think your boundaries are changing but your not sure?



Boundaries change ...

Mon Dec 09, 2019 8:48 pm • 14 Replies • 8026 Views

Trauma and BDSM

My beloved has extensive trauma and we do not use BDSM as therapy.

Those are deep and murky Waters.


As far as reading I would suggest this book as it has helped my beloved immensely:


htt ...

Sun Dec 08, 2019 8:02 pm • 5 Replies • 3339 Views