Punishment for the Disabled

Whenever I get asked this question I always answer it the same way. Have a non-power exchange-based conversation regarding what punishments he legitimately hates I'm. Not what punishments he might get ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:46 pm • 4 Replies • 4563 Views

Being dropped

All feelings are valid.
They are also transitory.
Im sorry for you rough patch.

Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:45 pm • 6 Replies • 3915 Views

How long before you move on

I was with my first wife for 5 years.

I met my beloved 2 months after I left.

Before that I would have said--- take a year. Figure yourself out.

But now I think-- when the "one" comes to ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:44 pm • 2 Replies • 3493 Views

Less attractive?

Less physically attractive?

To me, no.

But I dont date people with kids at home.

My first wife had a young daughter.
Never again.

Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:38 pm • 47 Replies • 27158 Views

Extreme Play

Congratulations and how wonderful for you to find somebody who fits your needs.


Edge play is different for every player.

For some Edge play is sensory deprivation. For others Edge play is anyt ...

Tue Nov 05, 2019 6:39 pm • 8 Replies • 3496 Views

BDSM Illegal in Iowa?

Yes its illegal everywhere.

The one holding the whip gets charged with assault.

The one receiving the whip gets charged with aiding and abetting.

The danger here is when states classify ...

Tue Nov 05, 2019 6:30 pm • 7 Replies • 6200 Views

Furniture

Google has them.

Tue Nov 05, 2019 6:22 pm • 2 Replies • 3258 Views

Dom is very angry

There are massive red flags all over this.

1) your angry D type isnt talking
2)you are automatically defending yourself as not a cheater-- does your D type accuse you of this?
3) you seem surpri ...

Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:51 pm • 21 Replies • 13188 Views

Question for all Members especial [D/s]

I dont have kids.

But I wonder if people would struggle more with their son being a slave?

Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:45 pm • 6 Replies • 4158 Views

When Black bleeds into white -- (When The Lifestyle bleeds into your Vanilla life)

I answer questions directly and honestly as they are asked.

Only the question that is asked.

I wont lie.

I figure that if someone is brave enough to ask they deserve an honest answer.

...

Thu Oct 31, 2019 6:08 pm • 7 Replies • 4831 Views