Just starting out

Your in the right place.
Feel free to Dm ppl with questions.

Fri Sep 09, 2022 11:20 pm • 8 Replies • 2064 Views

s types engaging a D type

Here is one that I see a lot posted over time. It is new, usually s types asking how to approach a D type or how to answer a D types question.


The question is usually framed around "what do y ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:27 am • 25 Replies • 3645 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

Sounds like sub drop to me. Normal. Now you can start looking at how you can get ahead of it next time.

Cool off period
Aftercare
Emotional grounding
Self care

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:19 am • 18 Replies • 3631 Views

Where to go from here

Hugz and luv.

Yes you can breathe again. Serve again if your heart desires.

Its ok to crumble ---

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:17 am • 6 Replies • 1378 Views

Struggling

I know you are struggling- what Im going to say wont help. Leave.
You as an s type need to have standards.
You as an s type need to have boundaries.
You as an s type deserve to be treated well.
...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:12 am • 24 Replies • 4606 Views

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

Nope. And im ok with that. Some things are just an "is"

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:10 am • 37 Replies • 5855 Views

Permanent scarring

The only thing that I would add here is that when it comes to permanent body mod If you want it to come out anything that's like in your brain the person doing the body mod should either 1- have exp ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:09 am • 7 Replies • 1738 Views

Reverse harem? 2 Masters?

Removing gender here.. An s type can serve 2 or more M types. It is generally negotiated between the M types about time and activities.

What is expected and when.

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:07 am • 14 Replies • 2666 Views

Communication: The KEY to our dynamics... But when does it become "Topping from the bottom"

In my opinion the concept of " topping from below" is an idea that was thought of by D types to remain unchallenged as they do inappropriate things. Non negotiated things. Things that they know are tr ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:05 am • 16 Replies • 3716 Views

Poly relationship

Subs can have rankings depending on the overall structure set out by the D type.


It is absolutely natural to feel whatever you need to feel.

Here is the take away- challenge yourself to be ho ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:01 am • 13 Replies • 2530 Views