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Labels in relationships.

In the short term you can tell anyone who asks you are "exploring possibilities with someone already." It is vague and ill-defined.

In the long term I agree with Devoted. More definition might be ...

Sun Mar 07, 2021 9:24 pm • 19 Replies • 7259 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Labels in relationships.

Fun Game for Dominants!

Outside of very few instances I can't be bothered to care where I go for dinner and hate selecting a restaurant so let others do it.

Unless there are buffalo wings involved. Then I know precisely ...

Fri Mar 05, 2021 4:50 am • 47 Replies • 17147 Views

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Zedland

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Just for Fun

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Fun Game for Dominants!

A little nervous

Well there's a bunch of things to consider starting with how comfortable are you with moving into the dominate role. If you are unsure that undercuts your confidence and a Dom without confidence is r ...

Fri Mar 05, 2021 4:40 am • 8 Replies • 5277 Views

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Zedland

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Absolute Beginners

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A little nervous

Question for Dom(me)s/Masters

As with most things it would depend on the context. If the relationship was based around the achievement of a specific goal and both parties feel it has run its course then maybe it appropiate for bo ...

Thu Mar 04, 2021 11:36 pm • 30 Replies • 12600 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Question for Dom(me)s/Masters

Spanking... your experience giving or receiving

I like giving a good spanking and not just for the obvious reasons. It is more an embodiment of my control, a demonstration I can give anything from essentially gentle caresses to the 'you won't be s ...

Thu Mar 04, 2021 11:21 pm • 20 Replies • 11197 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Spanking... your experience giving or receiving

Bringing D/s dynamics into an established relationship

Obviously if this is something you want and he is someone you want to pursue it with then you have to bring it up. Or else you'll probably end up resenting having this unfulfilled ache and that won't ...

Fri Feb 26, 2021 4:46 am • 16 Replies • 5455 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Bringing D/s dynamics into an established relationship

Finding my submission through my growth and have struggles and questions

And there will be a few more. However they will lessen as will the blocks between you and happiness. As with the tides and the rocks you must simply keep working at it.

Thu Aug 13, 2020 10:45 pm • 4 Replies • 3353 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Finding my submission through my growth and have struggles and questions

You are going against several years of learned behavior, that you should not voice such desires. Given how vanilla you had been you might even be fighting having these desires at all. That is no sma ...

Thu Aug 13, 2020 6:25 pm • 4 Replies • 3353 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Finding my submission through my growth and have struggles and questions

Is there such a role as a "toy"?

I swear if you two don't knock it off and return to your sperate areas I am turning this forum right around and no one gets ice cream.

Wed Aug 12, 2020 5:53 am • 66 Replies • 28438 Views

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Zedland

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Absolute Beginners

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Is there such a role as a "toy"?

No a sadist derives pleasure from inflicting pain, not ignoring the feeling of others. What you describe would be definitionally a psychopath, one who advances their own interests with no empathy for ...

Wed Aug 12, 2020 5:47 am • 66 Replies • 28438 Views

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Zedland

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Absolute Beginners

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Is there such a role as a "toy"?