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When someone wants you to make them feel like a bitch.

Everyone will have their opinion on this and really you should do what feels most natural to you. Yelling, screaming, frothing at the mouth works. Giggling like at school girl at real or perceived i ...

Sun Jul 19, 2020 10:53 pm • 6 Replies • 4306 Views

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Zedland

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Femdom

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When someone wants you to make them feel like a bitch.

Getting Comfortable with Safewords?

My advice, repeat the words aloud to yourself. I know it sounds dumb, but you should be comfortable saying them. Saying them aloud makes it a more normal, comfortable thing.

Sun Jul 19, 2020 11:48 am • 7 Replies • 4379 Views

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Zedland

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Untied

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Getting Comfortable with Safewords?

Do the Rules Still Apply?

That would depend entirely on what you two have discussed. For example if one rule is that you must inform him when you are going out, well that is obviously out the window.

In my personal opinion ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 1:05 am • 11 Replies • 6699 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Do the Rules Still Apply?

Finding your limits

Of course it is normal to question assumptions as you increase your knowledge. You may learn that something previously feared or viewed as extreme is actually a blase banality. Learning more about s ...

Wed Jul 15, 2020 5:32 am • 2 Replies • 3257 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Finding your limits

Mask

You could do it if you used one of those neck scarf type coverings. It probably wouldn't be very comfortable, but it would conceal the strap portion of the gag and provide the same effectiveness as t ...

Wed Jul 15, 2020 12:54 am • 10 Replies • 7474 Views

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Zedland

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Equipment & Toys

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Mask

Am I wrong?

The abusive ex comes forward about how the woman of your life is actually a manipulative witch who has constructed an elaborate, specific, detailed and internally consistent series of lies and will on ...

Wed Jul 15, 2020 12:48 am • 17 Replies • 7870 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Am I wrong?

An interesting insight about dom/sub relationships?

Some people are just assholes.

Sun Jul 12, 2020 7:59 am • 17 Replies • 9286 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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An interesting insight about dom/sub relationships?

How do you ask for help.

The forum's here are fairly good place to find interesting topics of discussion, some of which might be relevant to your unasked questions. As for why they are unasked questions you really shouldn't ...

Sun Jul 12, 2020 7:57 am • 6 Replies • 3551 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you ask for help.

Degradation?

I agree with Bunnie on this. Regardless if the type of play if you feel uncomfortable and resentful of it then communication is clearly not occurring. You have to make it clear that this is not alwa ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 7:13 pm • 6 Replies • 3359 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Degradation?

Fetishes VS Kinks

To me it has always been semantic. Perhaps fetish was a bit more formal than kink, but I use them interchangeably.

Looking forward to hearing others' opinions though.

Thu Jul 09, 2020 4:25 am • 7 Replies • 4654 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Fetishes VS Kinks