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Is there so much information that it can obfuscate spontaneity

There can be such thing as too much information, in so far as extraneous and superfluous data can clog the decision making process. But outside of time-sensitive decisions no, there is no such thing ...

Wed Jul 08, 2020 5:00 am • 9 Replies • 3690 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Is there so much information that it can obfuscate spontaneity

BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

No dng it is not weird that BDSM makes you feel free. It is the whole point. That and the kinky sex.

There is one more bit of advice I thought of. Hiding your equipment. Kids are curious and yo ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 5:54 pm • 10 Replies • 8190 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

Anal

Start small. Literally, his smallest finger the pinky. And go slow and you have to communicate what feels good and what you are comfortable with, don't be afraid to call a halt. Also have him wear ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 10:03 am • 23 Replies • 12303 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Anal

BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

Well welcome and such.

I have never been married my advice is a little limited but one of the things I like to do is assign my sub a nickname. When I use that nickname she knows we are D/s with al ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 9:38 am • 10 Replies • 8190 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

I find there are very few moments when one can exert total control over someone, making their every decision for them and generally treating them as a 'doll' to be molded to their will. Those are gen ...

Sat Jul 04, 2020 7:09 pm • 14 Replies • 10504 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Sub drop / after care?

Speaking generally aftercare boils down to reminding your partner you care, they matter, and you are there for them. How that is achieved varies from person to person, scene to scene. Sometimes it i ...

Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:24 am • 9 Replies • 4468 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Sub drop / after care?

Sleeping Sub

It can be fun. You will need a lubricant of some kind and any movement of their body should be attempted when you partner is in their first few REM cycles.

There in ends my practical advice as the ...

Fri Apr 03, 2020 5:46 am • 22 Replies • 14122 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Sleeping Sub

New policy

Be evil for good. Get them into a bidding war of donating money to charity.

Sat Mar 28, 2020 10:54 pm • 40 Replies • 22981 Views

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Zedland

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Femdom

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New policy

How to let someone know they aren't your type?

You are going to hurt their feelings. It is unavoidable. Trying to avoid it will just cause more hurt.

Be direct, honest, and make it clear without being to insulting.

Sat Mar 28, 2020 10:53 pm • 21 Replies • 10698 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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How to let someone know they aren't your type?

What if he's not into BDSM?

If you want to be sneaky I would suggest one of those adult toy kits to 'spice things up'. Then you have the ropes and blindfold and just have to try them. Then when he sees how you react to them he ...

Sat Mar 28, 2020 10:52 pm • 33 Replies • 12758 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What if he's not into BDSM?