Bum play & impotence

Thanks VWS and Reclusive for your thoughts - some interesting stuff to think about there

Sat Apr 27, 2019 6:33 pm • 10 Replies • 8084 Views

A Question for Dom/mes, Tops, etc

A good question with no real right or wrong answer! My partner and myself were together for a few years before we started actively exploring our kinks and soon found comfort with her being the sub, an ...

Thu Jan 24, 2019 12:51 pm • 8 Replies • 3819 Views

Erotic Music

Alt J

Mon Dec 24, 2018 10:39 pm • 17 Replies • 8651 Views

Erotic Music

For reasons I can’t explain, disco!

Mon Dec 24, 2018 1:59 am • 17 Replies • 8651 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

Absolutely Fox - but the post got me thinking and seemed an appropriate follow up thought!

Sun Dec 16, 2018 8:34 pm • 25 Replies • 12290 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

How can two immeasurable human concepts be prioritised when the act of prioritisation implies scale and measure?

Sun Dec 16, 2018 6:32 pm • 25 Replies • 12290 Views

Bdsm shop or hardware store

Combining my love of DIY with BDSM has been awesome. I have made my own stockade and am also working on various leather projects. I aim to build all of my own furniture eventually. So much more satisf ...

Sat Dec 15, 2018 7:32 pm • 7 Replies • 3487 Views

Rigger Books and Rope Advice

Agree with everyone so far about safety - goes without saying. So many people have recommended Two Knotty Boys - their Back on the Ropes book as rich with ties harnesses and fancy work, but most impor ...

Sun Dec 09, 2018 2:49 pm • 50 Replies • 20515 Views

Getting toys.

It all depends on what you’re looking to buy. As a general rule I never buy wearables or restraints online as I think it’s important connect with these things by handling them and checking quality and ...

Sat Nov 24, 2018 3:30 pm • 5 Replies • 3877 Views

How to be a better submissive

Totally agree with Dark Fox and FabSeverus - it takes the right dom to bring out the sub that you both seek

Sat Nov 24, 2018 3:22 pm • 12 Replies • 10117 Views