Favorite Toys

As I've always said "toys are used 'in' you while tools are used 'on' you."
I prefer a dragons tail and dual leather floggers. All easy to make, but not so easy to sell lol.

Mon Aug 30, 2021 4:27 am • 17 Replies • 4775 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

1. Contracts should be used by experienced individuals looking to finalize the terms of their commitment to each other, not to initialize an itinerary.
2. Talk is cheap. Gain what info you can from ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 4:22 am • 24 Replies • 9787 Views

Couples bdsm sessions

Theres a lot of places saying they're good, but I'd only trust a few and do know of a sort of kinky BnB in PA, but dont know if they do training sessions. Do check for annual events, though costly the ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 4:09 am • 7 Replies • 2262 Views

Advice for starting BDSM?

Both as individuals go through the pages of what is known bdsm. Both write down likes, dislikes, and curiosities. Then switch and read each others notes. You both might have mutual things and probabl ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 4:04 am • 7 Replies • 2381 Views

A little disappointed

Ppl are everywhere, but not so easy to find. No reason you should change your facade just for them. Be who you are and as an active member of the community you'll eventually find what you're looking f ...

Thu Aug 26, 2021 8:41 pm • 32 Replies • 9929 Views

Punishments

I keep telling my wife that I'm gonna take away her cell phone if she keeps getting distracted by social media so easily.

Tue Aug 24, 2021 12:45 am • 16 Replies • 7192 Views

Munches, parties and events

Got all your shots? Dont care if you get the new covid variant?

Sat Aug 21, 2021 10:58 pm • 6 Replies • 2317 Views

Blow Jobs as punishment

“if your going to be mouthy, then your mouth needs to be occupied” I really like that saying g, but oral should be wanted instead of used as a punishment so it happens more often than not.

Sat Aug 21, 2021 10:56 pm • 23 Replies • 11970 Views

Relationship vs Dynamic

It's certainly possible to do both, but as I've seen it's best done with a line clearly drawn between the two.

Sat Aug 21, 2021 10:54 pm • 14 Replies • 5691 Views

Overly Clingy Sub

My wife/sub and I have a similar situation which is clearly defined. Shes an introvert and I'm an extrovert. She spends most of her time online with her political groups. Maybe you could find groups ...

Wed Aug 18, 2021 9:24 pm • 15 Replies • 5924 Views