Please explain your choice

Do keep in mind that there's a lot of wannabes, spammers, subs turned findoms, and a hunch of ppl that just want a quick lay. All these ppl dont want to subscribe or confirm for premium. Soninnpart ...

Sun May 03, 2020 9:08 pm • 10 Replies • 6680 Views

Can your identity change?

Its possible youve changed, but it's also possible youve simply learned more about yourslef through new experiences.

Also dont forget the 'auto-switch', or whatbi call the Clapper. That's when you ...

Fri May 01, 2020 5:49 am • 5 Replies • 4038 Views

Teaching new subs how to serve

I'm sure anyone here of some experience can totally agree with this post and warn all newbs to STAY AWAY FROM FETLIFE. Of course anyone that enjoy being used and abused and mocked is fair to do as the ...

Thu Apr 30, 2020 5:58 am • 11 Replies • 23730 Views

Illinois BDSM Scene

Fetlife at thisbpintnis only good for finding munches and either lifestyle events

Wed Apr 29, 2020 11:20 pm • 4 Replies • 3717 Views

he's in...

As ive always said, this lifestyle isnt for everyone. With that said I'm sure you can understand how happy we all are to hear how well this has effected your connection with your husband.

Wed Apr 29, 2020 10:46 pm • 7 Replies • 2993 Views

Mustering the courage to go to bdsm clubs?

Definately start with munches and go with a freind.

Wed Apr 29, 2020 5:45 am • 10 Replies • 4730 Views

Nudes for dudes?

I've slowly gotten my slave to go from totally nervous to practicly begging to masturbate for me during face time. It's all done so she is ready and completely comfortable being naked with me.

You ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:18 am • 28 Replies • 21185 Views

How To Punish

I beleive you and your hubby (bitch lol, I recall your prior post) dont have an exact agreement of punishments yet. For some it's not needed while others have it as a requirement. If you have no agre ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:05 am • 21 Replies • 12522 Views

Where to start

I always tell newbs to explore their kitchen. Grab an implement like a wooden spoon or a spatula and smack your arm. If you like the sensation then smack your ass or arm, thigh, breast. Give yourslef ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 12:55 am • 15 Replies • 7538 Views

Hollyweird''s bondage

It's been said that those that want such in films and tv have done no research based on the fact they they dont want to be seen in such circumstances while many feel they'd get trapped within their ow ...

Tue Apr 28, 2020 12:32 am • 3 Replies • 3699 Views