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1631

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

Oooh - meeting strangers from the internet! It used to be SOOOOO scary and even taboo! But many of us have done it, either for coffee, a meal, or maybe even more. So here's a thread to talk about c ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:04 pm • 3 Replies • 7642 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Fetish

Topic

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

1632

Portable Toy Bags

I don't have a toy bag but I probably should!

I love the idea of foam compartments and the toys being somewhat on display. Great idea!

Thu Apr 21, 2016 11:56 am • 18 Replies • 23438 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Portable Toy Bags

1633

Easing into it

Much of D/s play can be mentally and physically challenging so going slow is smart. Perhaps a good place to start is doing some erotic reading and and porn watching together, coupled with discussion. ...

Wed Apr 20, 2016 3:03 pm • 4 Replies • 8843 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Easing into it

1634

Male Dominants & Misogyny

Are accusations of misogyny the straight,male dominant's cross to bear? Just as anyone in to BDSM has had to at one time or another explain the difference between BDSM and abuse, do male dominant's o ...

Tue Apr 19, 2016 12:49 pm • 3 Replies • 7013 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Male Dominants & Misogyny

1635

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

It's a question someone posed on Twitter that I thought was fascinating: Is the BDSM lifestyle 'real' and if so, what does it mean? I suppose it could be interpreted as asking if you can live BDSM 2 ...

Sat Apr 16, 2016 1:50 pm • 18 Replies • 26999 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

1636

Hello all

Very cool! I love the triangular pet cage.

Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:57 pm • 3 Replies • 6269 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Hello all

1637

Hello all

What kind of items do you build?

Thu Apr 14, 2016 12:17 pm • 3 Replies • 6269 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Hello all

1638

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

This article directly relates to this topic. Have a read when you get a chance: http://www.princessmarx.com/authentic-domination-vs-careful-curation-not-your-usual-commercial-dominatrix/

Wed Apr 13, 2016 11:11 am • 2 Replies • 6971 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

1639

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

As a lifestyle female dominant who is less inclined to the porn version of femdom and more into feminist femled relationships, I've had my issues in the past with the concept of 'pay for play'. But o ...

Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:09 pm • 2 Replies • 6971 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

1640

Who Ever Says, "Let's Talk SSC & RACK"

Listening to this with my morning coffee. Interesting stuff

Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:02 pm • 5 Replies • 7667 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Who Ever Says, "Let's Talk SSC & RACK"