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1631

Caged In By Stereotypes

So I just came across this article that focuses on stereotypes about what us kinky people like to wear:

https://kinkcraft.co/2016/03/bdsm-black-leather/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=twitt ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:14 pm • 3 Replies • 7007 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Caged In By Stereotypes

1632

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

I've always thought that the idea of a whole lifestyle centered around your kink was a bit fantastical. I mean, you don't eat your breakfast on a latex covered tablecloth and sit on bondage horses, d ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:07 pm • 18 Replies • 28034 Views

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Villanelle

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

1633

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

Oooh - meeting strangers from the internet! It used to be SOOOOO scary and even taboo! But many of us have done it, either for coffee, a meal, or maybe even more. So here's a thread to talk about c ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:04 pm • 3 Replies • 7927 Views

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Villanelle

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Fetish

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So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

1634

Portable Toy Bags

I don't have a toy bag but I probably should!

I love the idea of foam compartments and the toys being somewhat on display. Great idea!

Thu Apr 21, 2016 11:56 am • 18 Replies • 24239 Views

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Villanelle

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Equipment & Toys

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Portable Toy Bags

1635

Easing into it

Much of D/s play can be mentally and physically challenging so going slow is smart. Perhaps a good place to start is doing some erotic reading and and porn watching together, coupled with discussion. ...

Wed Apr 20, 2016 3:03 pm • 4 Replies • 9180 Views

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Villanelle

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Absolute Beginners

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Easing into it

1636

Male Dominants & Misogyny

Are accusations of misogyny the straight,male dominant's cross to bear? Just as anyone in to BDSM has had to at one time or another explain the difference between BDSM and abuse, do male dominant's o ...

Tue Apr 19, 2016 12:49 pm • 3 Replies • 7305 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Male Dominants & Misogyny

1637

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

It's a question someone posed on Twitter that I thought was fascinating: Is the BDSM lifestyle 'real' and if so, what does it mean? I suppose it could be interpreted as asking if you can live BDSM 2 ...

Sat Apr 16, 2016 1:50 pm • 18 Replies • 28034 Views

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Villanelle

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

1638

Hello all

Very cool! I love the triangular pet cage.

Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:57 pm • 3 Replies • 6582 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Equipment & Toys

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Hello all

1639

Hello all

What kind of items do you build?

Thu Apr 14, 2016 12:17 pm • 3 Replies • 6582 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Equipment & Toys

Topic

Hello all

1640

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

This article directly relates to this topic. Have a read when you get a chance: http://www.princessmarx.com/authentic-domination-vs-careful-curation-not-your-usual-commercial-dominatrix/

Wed Apr 13, 2016 11:11 am • 2 Replies • 7235 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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In Praise Of The Pro Domme