How do you feel about public play with your partner? Are you an exhibitionist? Maybe you feed off the energy of a group? Or is iyour play too precious, to private to share with others?

While discussing definitions of BDSM lifestyle in another thread, we touched on the intensity required to maintain a 24/7 D/s dynamic. How do you keep mentally fit, remain autonomous, and not develop an unhealthy co-dependency while immersed in a 24/7 relationship?

I just came across this article from Carasutra you may find interesting.  And surprising.

http://carasutra.co.uk/2016/04/how-do-you-get-your-partner-to-dominate-you/

So I just came across this article that focuses on stereotypes about what us kinky people like to wear:

Oooh - meeting strangers from the internet! It used to be SOOOOO scary and even taboo! But many of us have done it, either for coffee, a meal, or maybe even more. So here's a thread to talk about casual interactions with those dark and mysterious internet strangers!

Are accusations of misogyny the straight,male dominant's cross to bear?  Just as anyone in to BDSM has had to at one time or another explain the difference between BDSM and abuse, do male dominant's o ...