Re: Just curious

Why everyone hesitate to agree they are a dom or sub in public/workplaces?

I would hesitate to announce to my staff that I am a submissive because as the office manager they are my subordinates. I ...

Mon Feb 25, 2019 12:44 am • 21 Replies • 7160 Views

4 way relationship.

Two things to consider.

1. Although you adore each of your partners and can see all of their amazing qualities, I’m sure you aren’t naive enough to be blind to their shortcomings as well, right! Th ...

Fri Feb 22, 2019 7:32 pm • 19 Replies • 11684 Views

what is your Favorite type play

How could I pick just one thing? I like all play that includes power exchange.

I suppose if I had to name a favorite (although it’s a close call) I’d say bondage; with an emphasis on rope play. Si ...

Fri Feb 22, 2019 7:09 pm • 10 Replies • 6111 Views

D/S relationship in public places

This is a great topic. Just last night my Sir asked me to share some of my fantasies with him and as I named a few I realized I have exhibitionist traits that I would have denied having if asked (thin ...

Thu Feb 21, 2019 3:49 pm • 37 Replies • 19443 Views

BDSM related to healing?

"Is it possible to have a BDSM session purely to get a state of mind peace?"

Yes, absolutely. Not every session or scene is for sexual gratification. The reason I'm drawn to this lifestyle in the f ...

Tue Feb 19, 2019 11:37 pm • 6 Replies • 4491 Views

Sharing Your Sub

While being shared is not a hard limit for me, it certainly isn't my personal preference and I can't imagine enjoying play time with any Dom but my Sir. I'd do anything Sir asked and I'd get pleasure ...

Tue Feb 19, 2019 11:16 pm • 27 Replies • 39150 Views

First fantasies of BDSM

I’m happy you like the thread! Sounds like we were wired different from the start. My “daydream” was not sexual in nature, as I was only a young child and had not been exposed and was not aware of any ...

Mon Feb 18, 2019 5:02 pm • 14 Replies • 5616 Views

Can you imagine your sub wife doing this on Valentine's Day? LOL

I laughed so hard at this I had actual tears. This is something I’d never be brave enough to do to Sir but I’d certainly jump at the opportunity to help a friend do this for her husband.

Mon Feb 18, 2019 3:22 am • 11 Replies • 9215 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Mine was simple. “Kitten” best describes my submissive personality and I’ll only ever give that side of myself to the one I call “Sir”.

Mon Feb 18, 2019 2:37 am • 267 Replies • 105705 Views

First fantasies of BDSM

I don’t remember my very first fantasy but I remember when and where they stemmed from. I’m a bibliophile. I have been for as long as I can remember. In my pre-teen years I spent a lot of time reading ...

Mon Feb 18, 2019 2:33 am • 14 Replies • 5616 Views