Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it tota

Hi there. i was sure in which section to put this post and I ended up deciding on this one.

I have several violent and taboo fantasies that I would never do in real life and that I'm against people ...

Sun Feb 06, 2022 6:00 pm • 34 Replies • 12936 Views

Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

Personally, I enjoy being given funishments, not punishments. I don't know if it's because my dominant part is too big but I don't feel the need and refuse to let someone discipline me. My own parents ...

Sun Feb 06, 2022 3:14 pm • 14 Replies • 4290 Views

Need advice anyone?

Does he enjoy writing lines or standing in a corner? if not, you can try those.

If you don't find anything you can always not play with him as his punishment.

Sun Feb 06, 2022 1:21 am • 13 Replies • 6176 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

for me it's writing ^^

Fri Feb 04, 2022 2:42 pm • 37 Replies • 11640 Views

Wetting

can totally relate to you @WytchyWoman. Same scenario and even collecting a sample for a urine test sometimes takes forever.

I know the feeling.
And when I'm in out of nowhere, with no toilets nea ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 7:39 pm • 8 Replies • 3043 Views

Being Submissive

I agree with all of the above, but have some questions. Is the pleasure all about you or would it be all about your dominant? I had a playmate who called himself submissive (when I was first starting ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 7:26 pm • 18 Replies • 5249 Views

Am I turning into a Dom? Or into a switch?

I don't think that BDSM has anything to do with mental illnesses. Those who think that don't know what a real mental illness is.Could not agree more since one of my husband's WAS a psychiatrist and my ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 6:28 pm • 21 Replies • 6254 Views

Am I turning into a Dom? Or into a switch?

I didn't read all the replys to this thread so forgive me if I am late to the game.

So, to answer the original question, lots of folks switch hats until they find the one that fits. There really is ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 5:38 pm • 21 Replies • 6254 Views

Kink and vulnerability

What often happens to me when I tell someone that I'm into BDSM is that they ask me "What is BDSM?"
And then I have to explain what is it. So far, in real life, I haven't found anyone who also likes ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 10:22 pm • 11 Replies • 4302 Views

Kinky Coupon Book

In my opinion, the best would be for you and him both to talk and find common preferences/things you both would like to try and then write them down.

It's hard to give you specific suggestions beca ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 4:26 pm • 4 Replies • 2648 Views