How do people like to be approached?

I'm curious to know how people like to be approached? I mean beyond the obvious, e.g., politely with respect, do you want people to message you directly? Do you want them to ask about your profile? Do ...

Sun Aug 08, 2021 12:13 pm • 22 Replies • 5546 Views

Does Money Matter?

Wouldn't bother me regarding the money. Having dated someone in medical school once decades ago, you're incredibly demanding career would give me pause though.

Fri Jul 16, 2021 1:15 am • 95 Replies • 39924 Views

Word association game

Fun

When I say love you think of?

Mon Jul 12, 2021 4:16 am • 979 Replies • 112183 Views

Word association game

Colors

When I say emotion what do you think of?

Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:25 pm • 979 Replies • 112183 Views

Ah poor Yorick, I knew him well.....well maybe not THAT well

The thing about anal is it requires a lot of trust on both sides, but especially the sub--i assume we're not talking about pegging here since most subs don't want to peg nor doms want to be pegged bec ...

Sun Jul 11, 2021 1:16 am • 47 Replies • 18754 Views

Children are one of many issues you will face as a couple

I think Sun Kitten and Sweet Ginger are correct--if someone finds you attractive and sees your beauty--both inner and outer--any external limitations on your relationship, e.g., children, your career, ...

Sat Jul 10, 2021 10:04 pm • 47 Replies • 19852 Views

Thoughts on Fetlife

"I can't say I blame them."

Sat Jul 10, 2021 9:46 pm • 57 Replies • 20018 Views

Old profiles

My biggest gripe with Fetlife is it is overrun with old, dead profiles. People who haven't been on in over 5, 10, 12 years and you still have wade through all that deadwood.

That and the male-femal ...

Sat Jul 10, 2021 8:37 pm • 57 Replies • 20018 Views

Do you use conventional dating apps?

I have rarely found dating sites to be worth my time.

First, they are full if catfish and scammers.

Second, they are like banks in that the people who do best with them need then the least. Ju ...

Fri Jul 09, 2021 12:26 pm • 20 Replies • 7678 Views

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

Chocolate Peanut Butter by Turkey Hill

Tue Jul 06, 2021 1:54 am • 143 Replies • 30102 Views