Your Turn Ladies

I don’t answer questions that perpetuate gentrification. It’s disrespectful to the philosophies that BDSM were built on. Old guard came from the leather community to combat these types of bigotry.
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Sun Aug 18, 2024 10:51 pm • 33 Replies • 2499 Views

Question For Those Men Who Like Ladies Breasts

So don't congratulate me for being open minded because I am not.


Yeah no shit you aren't. If other view points are so offensive to you I suggest sticking to your christian bdsm sites and domest ...

Thu Aug 15, 2024 11:43 pm • 24 Replies • 2080 Views

Question For Those Men Who Like Ladies Breasts

Public forums are open spaces where people from diverse backgrounds, experiences, and identities come together to share their thoughts and learn from one another. This diversity is what makes public ...

Thu Aug 15, 2024 11:34 pm • 24 Replies • 2080 Views

Proof?!

Mm. I smell incel and cod psychology woven through this thread in a package less appealing than my balding, withered parts.

I've no views on the original question, I don't need them in my current c ...

Wed Jul 10, 2024 12:00 am • 56 Replies • 4048 Views

General questions

Hi friend, welcome to the Cage

I echo what aradialspire said- she's pretty wise. I will caution you that there are some overt transphobes on this site, but they out themselves and you can just ...

Wed Jun 19, 2024 1:42 am • 10 Replies • 1322 Views

Subs with mental illness

I see a few problematic responses here and I want to address those in a general way.


BDSM is also not a result of trauma or mental illnesses or addictions or whatever else was said. People who en ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 7:19 am • 31 Replies • 2607 Views

Clingy Subs

You forgot "Find out what the core problem is" Sweetlydepraved. Smiles at you.

I don't mind if submissives answer the question, even if I directed it to the Dominants, but rather than reading all ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 9:26 pm • 54 Replies • 4507 Views

Punishment

Figging only hurts as long as the ginger is inserted. As soon as it's gone so is the sting. I don't think I would classify it as intense pain for me, but I play fairly hard and consider it more an ann ...

Wed May 01, 2024 7:18 am • 60 Replies • 8882 Views

Puppy!!

I'm a dog person. Like, a big one (currently sharing a bed with the Boss, 5 dogs, and a cat who thinks she's a dog). In addition to fur puppies I love skin puppies too. I hang out with a bunch of quee ...

Tue Apr 23, 2024 7:32 am • 6 Replies • 886 Views

D types as mentors

I 100% believe that like should mentor like. You can certainly learn from the other side of the slash but a mentorship is too intimate and vulnerable to risk the kind of power dynamics that could come ...

Sat Mar 30, 2024 6:58 am • 23 Replies • 2053 Views