Any words gross you out?

Words are vitally important, the words that we use and the context in which we use them can make a huge difference to the reaction of those who read them.
I hate - Cunt - Arse - Shyte
I'm sure the ...

Fri Oct 01, 2021 9:14 am • 46 Replies • 9048 Views

What are your favorite BDSM erotic fiction novels?

Try "101 Days of Sodom" by De Sade - Bit too much S H 1 T for my liking but otherwise a most interesting novel. I'm trying to read "Justine" but struggling with it.

Thu Nov 19, 2020 9:40 am • 33 Replies • 8444 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

For me there is only one real toy and that is rope. Rope is the most versatile and probably the oldest tool in the box. I use cotton rope, which I have died to various colours, (cotton takes dye well) ...

Thu Oct 15, 2020 11:53 am • 33 Replies • 11882 Views

Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

I find that many people (and here I generalise) fall somewhere on the spectrum between the completely Dominant and the completely Submissive, and I suspect that most people fall somewhere around the m ...

Wed Mar 11, 2020 9:34 am • 14 Replies • 6874 Views

How to introduce rope into my collection.

There's so much advice around, most of it good and valid. Here is what I do and use. I practise Shibari/Kinbaku, (Japanese rope bondage). I use cotton rope which is soft and kind on the skin. It is ...

Wed Dec 04, 2019 10:59 am • 5 Replies • 3556 Views

Relaxing

My sub (my partner) finds that she is able to relax when I tie her. If I completely restrain her in rope bondage and cover her over with a warm blanket, she is able to drift off into sub-space (not sl ...

Mon Dec 02, 2019 9:57 pm • 7 Replies • 3225 Views

Post-meet up sadness

Sounds like you've 'got it bad', love is wonderful and can be painful. Time is the great healer.

Sun Dec 01, 2019 10:00 am • 3 Replies • 2067 Views

Is it wrong?

Once there is an agreement between dom and sub, the dom may instruct thew sub in what to do. If the agreement has not yet been made then there is no D/s relationship. I the Dom gives instructions then ...

Sat Nov 30, 2019 1:18 pm • 8 Replies • 3876 Views

Disobedient or not working

There is only one way to resolve such a problem and that us to talk. It needs to be assertive and definitely not aggressive. Respect his point of view even though you may not agree with it, and ask th ...

Sat Nov 23, 2019 10:31 am • 7 Replies • 3963 Views

Do true subs males exist anymore? This was asked in sub women for males but I would like to see the

It takes all kinds and a lot of time and effort sorting the Chaff, from the Wheat. I live in the South West of UK and my experience is that there are many more (self styled) sub males than there are D ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 10:52 am • 57 Replies • 23351 Views