not so nice messages

You are not in the wrong, and it is not your fault, and it shouldn't happen.

All of the nonsense you describe is not "normal" with the ls, though sadly it is very common on bdsm websites. By no mea ...

Sun Mar 07, 2021 1:06 am • 19 Replies • 6167 Views

dealing with sub-drops

By asking for help you have done the best thing you can for the present.
That is not much help, but I'm wishing you all the best.

Sat Jan 23, 2021 9:02 am • 8 Replies • 2094 Views

Should I ask for rules?

Speak up - before you find yourself in that situation.

The whole idea about how "topping from the bottom" is so taboo is horseshit - because there are established mechanisms to ensure that no dynam ...

Thu Jan 14, 2021 3:57 pm • 33 Replies • 10091 Views

Dominants - what do you get out of being a dominant?

Simple answer - hopefully the same thing she gets from being a sub.

Ideally, every dynamic is a symbiotic relationship. Even in missionary there must be a top and a bottom.
Every relationship is i ...

Mon Jan 11, 2021 10:58 am • 5 Replies • 1956 Views

Breaking a hard limit

I'm kinda torn with this one.

I am adamant about safewords and negotiated limits.

Part of me wants to be the guy who says "It's ok, it was an accident, lets move on but be more mindful of our ne ...

Tue Jan 05, 2021 9:12 am • 11 Replies • 6647 Views

Poly is the topic

Ah, Bunnie...

Recently, a friend has been educating me about poly. I had declined to engage in that type of relationship the few times I was presented with it, one of which (read: whom) I still thi ...

Fri Dec 11, 2020 6:50 am • 12 Replies • 3727 Views

A curious mind wants to know: Do a lot of men or women enjoy watching web cam people?

i had a similar thought. i can see this as a BDSM kink. To me, the lack of physical contact could be used as a form of bondage or edging?



I never thought of that but it really makes a lot ...

Wed Dec 09, 2020 9:22 pm • 19 Replies • 5697 Views

Never enough

Geez, this ended up being a bit longer than I planned...
Let me be the first to say that I do not - nor could I - speak of any relationship other than my own, and I wont be doing so here.
Everything ...

Tue Dec 08, 2020 2:48 pm • 8 Replies • 3000 Views

A curious mind wants to know: Do a lot of men or women enjoy watching web cam people?

I had a sub who was considering becoming a webcam "model" (yes, that is actually what they are called) and this is what I can tell you -

It is for the most part very tame, at most it is light-core ...

Mon Dec 07, 2020 11:26 pm • 19 Replies • 5697 Views

So...How Did Yall Meet?

CollarSpace....I know. It's a bottom of the barrel dating site that we were both on for a joke (okay, and screenshots for friends/review for the Cage in my case). I viewed his profile and he respond ...

Fri Dec 04, 2020 11:21 am • 24 Replies • 6642 Views