Collars

Knightsundere

Ah from the mouth of babes, comes ca-ca..........No one in this lifestyle since its very beginning, has EVER , "forced people to sacrifice things they may not want to/being forced t ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 2:01 am • 72 Replies • 16952 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

I think you're over-reading "it's not all about sex" ahah, posting on a BDSM website is arguably an admittance that you are, on some level, here for/about sex/regard sex highly in your relationship. A ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 12:02 am • 18 Replies • 4339 Views

Collars

Frankly the morphing of a lifestyle remains the purview of the participants. The collar should be a big deal as it is provided with real meaning for most of us. Thankfully I will continue to believe i ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 11:51 pm • 72 Replies • 16952 Views

Female Dominant's...Where are You?

Sorry, didn't mean it as a direct response to you Kuro. This exact thread pops up at least once or twice a month x_x

Mon Nov 08, 2021 2:24 am • 25 Replies • 9441 Views

Female Dominant's...Where are You?

Hi, four year veteran of trying to find dommes online (I'm switching to irl only once I move and settle down in a month).

There are plenty of dommes. Just way too many horny men, and as it turns o ...

Mon Nov 08, 2021 1:58 am • 25 Replies • 9441 Views

Where is good erotica?

utopiastories is where I got into this stuff. Still check it for the classics c:

Mon Oct 18, 2021 8:52 am • 22 Replies • 7315 Views

New domme

Super cool to hear that you're making changes like this!
There are a lot of aspects to domination/submission and you don't need to tap into all of them in order to have a good time. If slapping or n ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 11:07 pm • 6 Replies • 2742 Views

Exploring BDSM solo

Self-bondage might be an option for you if you don't necessarily need the interpersonal aspect of d/s, or if you're comfortable with shifting down your expectations to that level. From personal experi ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 5:02 am • 8 Replies • 2647 Views

Intelligence in s types

"If they're (or you're) so smart then why are you put off with what they think? "

It's definitely possible to be simultaneously smart and... tactless/closeminded/selfish/sexist/overzealous/condesc ...

Tue Apr 06, 2021 4:39 pm • 70 Replies • 17017 Views

Is Chivalry Dead?

Fulmen's link is good, lol.

In my opinion there's a human ratio for dickheads/jerks and that ratio hasn't shifted at any point in history, though it does mean you'll meet a lot more in areas with ...

Thu Apr 01, 2021 10:23 pm • 57 Replies • 14520 Views