Exploring BDSM solo

Self-bondage might be an option for you if you don't necessarily need the interpersonal aspect of d/s, or if you're comfortable with shifting down your expectations to that level. From personal experi ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 5:02 am • 8 Replies • 2392 Views

Intelligence in s types

"If they're (or you're) so smart then why are you put off with what they think? "

It's definitely possible to be simultaneously smart and... tactless/closeminded/selfish/sexist/overzealous/condesc ...

Tue Apr 06, 2021 4:39 pm • 70 Replies • 14863 Views

Is Chivalry Dead?

Fulmen's link is good, lol.

In my opinion there's a human ratio for dickheads/jerks and that ratio hasn't shifted at any point in history, though it does mean you'll meet a lot more in areas with ...

Thu Apr 01, 2021 10:23 pm • 57 Replies • 12532 Views

Sub much larger physically

His pain tolerance might be high, but how long does that tolerance last? Maybe try tickling while he's restrained with rope/harnesses - if you do it for long enough and he's ticklish, it can be downri ...

Thu Apr 01, 2021 4:22 am • 13 Replies • 5004 Views

How/when to talk about the stay at home role?

I agree with insidestraight's bit. A """housewife""" role is a totally reasonable thing to desire as long as it's understood that there are obligations that come with it. I think it's best approached ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 1:07 am • 13 Replies • 4492 Views

Self Experimentation

Most of my early self experience was using long sleeve shirts to tie myself up. Arguably more convenient than rope, because one shirt is one knot (sashing ankles together, thighs, tightening around th ...

Wed Mar 24, 2021 1:56 pm • 19 Replies • 6800 Views

submissive mindset

Putting on tight clothes does it right away. The firm embrace reminds me of how I like to feel (restrained, held, comforted). Shaving also helps a lot.

Sun Mar 21, 2021 3:24 pm • 24 Replies • 8466 Views

What do you think about Japanese kinky?

Xenophobic people are everywhere, it's true. It's impossible to say that every single person or community would be welcoming to you, or to me. However, I think you can take some comfort in the fact th ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 2:21 pm • 13 Replies • 4292 Views

What do you think about Japanese kinky?

I think you'll be just fine in any country. [is my answer to what I *think* you meant...]

If the translation was perfect: I think you would know best if the 'Japanese community would shame you for ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 2:05 pm • 13 Replies • 4292 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

Anecdotal, but I use Tinder fairly heavily (have been for a while) and have ended up matching with a lot of women who don't advertise their more dominant leanings. Maybe I'm good at picking out people ...

Sat Mar 13, 2021 6:23 am • 47 Replies • 15946 Views